Hi! So, I’m here because I've been finding it really rather challenging to meet somebody in the real world at random with the same extracurricular interests as me, and I’m hoping I might have some more luck here! My last posts's haven gotten a fair few responses, but alas nothing has yet materialised and so I’m still looking!

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So, a bit about me, I’m 27, 6ft tall, blond, quite a type-A personality (although outside of work I’m reasonably easy going!), and very driven to succeed in whatever I do. I left school before 18 to start a company, and have since done this several times since with our current business scaling rapidly. I’m an engineer by background, I’ve spent most of my life studying engineering, and it continues to excite me and interest me which I really enjoy. Outside of work, I have a couple of large groups of friends I see quite frequently for dinners, drinks, talks, trips to galleries etc. I’m also a keen yachtsman, motorcyclist, and traveller. I adore museums, I love learning about new topics, and thrive off of social interaction. I own my own house which I'm currently renovating, and I know how to take care of myself.

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I’ve been in a couple of BDSM relationships in the past which have been great, but have ended for various amicable reasons. I’ve also been in vanilla relationships, but alas whilst I’ve really liked the people, they just don’t satisfy me sexually. In the bedroom, I like to be in control. I want to tie you up, pin you down, and fuck you until you’re screaming and shaking. I want to punish you when you’re disobedient, and I want to tease and tantalise you whilst denying you an orgasm again and again. I get off on the control, humiliation, and on your helplessness. I've known this about myself since I was very young, and I now know that I need this part of me to be satisfied!

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Outside of that, I’m a pretty regular chap who knows what he wants from life. I love snuggling up on the sofa, and I absolutely adore spending time with my partner doing interesting things or just having a nice dinner date. I want somebody who I can take to dinners, events, introduce to my friends, and take on adventures. Really, I want a partner. Somebody to be by my side as we, together, face the challenges that life presents us.

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I'm generally quite a supportive person of other peoples goals, and I like to help people where I can. I do have some significant walls around me due to past experiences, and it does take a long time to really gain my trust and for me to drop my guard. I value loyalty above most everything else, and it's the number one thing I look for in anybody I get close to.

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I’m extremely discreet about my bedroom interests, and I’d ideally like you to be as well (at least in the company of people I know). I’m DDF and would need you to be as well.

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If you’ve reached this point and you’re still interested, I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to drop me a message, I prefer chat to Reddit messages but realistically either is fine. I hope you all have a great start to the week!