Hi, I’ve posted here before (and in other more NSFW subs) trying to meet people, because dating apps really aren’t working for me. Maybe Reddit isn’t ideal, but I know from experience there’s a lot of like minded individuals on here. I’m 28 years old and from Iowa, smack dab in the middle of the country yet also nowhere all at once. I’m 6’1, a bigger guy who is comfortable in my skin yet also working on dropping a few pounds. I have pretty long hair, tattoos, my nose pierced and ears stretched.

I’m trying to make this as different as I can while still taking about myself, I want this to sound unique and not like something I’ve rehearsed countless times. Even if I have. I’m a nerd, comics and movies and games and all that. I love to read and write and just recently stared my blog back up actually. This isn’t to say I can’t be outdoors, despite my paler than a ghost skin tone I love being outside. I also really, really love cooking. From simple stuff to trying new recipes I’ve never done it’s my real passion. I’m a fast food manager looking to move to bigger and better things.

I wasn’t sure what I was looking for before. I had recently gotten out of a relationship and wasn’t sure I wanted one so soon. But I do, I want a partner to love and care for and be there for each other. I want all the fun, cute romantic stuff. I’m tired of my cousins having relationships and starting families while I’m still the single one. I hope you’re looking for the same, I’m not expecting anything much, just mutual connection and going from there. Everything else can come with time.

I’m looking for someone age 18 to mid 30s, driven who knows what she wants. In Iowa or the Midwest preferably, but open to long distance in the US and even outside it with the right person. I’m very kink friendly so I would love someone who also is, but it’s not a necessity. It’s more about connecting to the right person than sex. As far as looks I do find myself attracted to plus size/thicc/bbw women more, but I’m open to all body types and looks. Non-binary and trans welcome, as I’ve stated in the past my ex was AFAB but identified as non-binary.

Feel free to message me if any of this catches your eye, PM preferred but I will answer chats. Hope to hear from you soon. :)