Hi. I am a 36 year old geek and gamer from Gjøvik in Norway, who is looking for someone to be my player 2 in life, and who I can be a player 2 in theirs.

A "little" about me; I am a relatively calm and laid back kind of guy. I don't like to get stressed over things, and usually look on the bright side of whatever is going on. People have told me I'm a very comfortable person to be around, although I can be very awkward until I get to know and get comfortable with someone. I suspect that I might be on the autism spectrum, but I don't really know.

I am aromantic. Which means I struggle to get that deeper sense of connection with anyone. This doesn't mean I can't be romantic, or can't feel strongly for someone, though. I do want to find someone that I can potentially, hopefully, be with for a very long time, maybe even the rest of our lives. This has given me some polyamorous traits, though. And while I will be loyal to the one I'm in a relationship with, that person needs to understand that I will get "crushes" on other people from time to time.

It also means I'm a very physically affectionate person. Preferring to show my love and appreciation through physical acts (hugs, kisses, cuddling, sex), over words. Romantic language and pet names are weird and awkward to me, unfortunately. This also makes long distance relationships not really an option.

I do not drink alcohol, or smoke, or use any other kind or recreational drugs. I just never saw the point in doing any of it, and it's way too expensive to be doing anyway. I am also very careful with money, and extremely rarely buys anything without careful consideration, mostly as a result of never really having much moeny. I do not have a driver's license, partially because of never being able to afford it, as mentioned, and partially because I just don't feel comfortable behind the wheel of a car.

I work in a grocery store, mostly as a cashier. One of apparently very few people who actually likes being the cashier, so most of my coworkers are happy to just let me do that. I also stream on Twitch, as a hobby and potential secondary income source. It's been a slow process, but my channel has gotten affiliate, and there are a few people actually subbed to me. I stream mostly indie games, retro games, rpgs... And stay far away from competitive multiplayer games and horror games.

I am not at all interested in having kids. Not now, not ever. It just isn't for me. It's a responsibility that is way beyond what I feel I am capable of. And I have a sleep disorder that would make it very complicated and extremely stressful for everyone involved. In short, my sleep schedule is skewed from the norm and very inflexible.

Who I'm looking for; It's hard to say. Someone sweet and supportive. Someone geeky, and who likes gaming. Someone who can look past my oddities and like the person I am behind it all. Someone who's fine with not having kids. Someone who's willing to meet face to face relatively quickly. Someone who appreciates physical affection over words.

I don't really have any physical preferences. Hair, skin, height, size, etc... There are so many aspects of all of this that are beautiful. I can't really narrow it down. Age is kind of irrelevant as well. Essentially; I need to see you, talk to you, and take it from there.

I am open to meeting someone from pretty much anywhere, but the closer to Gjøvik you are the better. I am limited in my ability to travel, and I can't really relocate. And as mentioned earlier, I can't really do the long distance thing, so you have to be able to meet regularly.

I'm sure I could keep writing forever, but this is already getting too long. I hope to hear from someone out there.