I’m a happily married 39 year-old father of three in search of like minded women who are good at conversing. I am open to meeting in person if we click, but that is a lofty goal. I would be content to find a friend that is witty and playful as well as intelligent and kind.

My wife and I are dabbling in the world of ethical non-monogamy. I say dabbling because we just started down the ethical road and we aren’t sure how to label ourselves LOL. We have come to embrace the truth that being with other partners can be exhilarating. Now comes the hard work and roller coaster ride itself. I would be happy to talk with someone that is anywhere on the spectrum of ethical non monogamy, including someone that is happily monogamous, so long as you know that I am married and you are ok with that.

Outside of that arena I am working on my level of fitness for many reasons. I would love to have a six pack and the V than make women get weak in the knees. And I enjoy the release comes from working out. But this COVID lockdown has my gym schedule locked down as well. My garage just isn’t the same :(

I thoroughly enjoy time in the kitchen with my family. I’ve got three beautiful girls that I’m trying to pass this love along to. I have them each cooking a meal for the family once per week and that has been my favorite! Plus I don’t have to cook 5 times a week LOL.

My favorite foods are chocolate, BBQ chicken pizza, and Santa Maria Tri tip. But I am a novice foodie that enjoys seeking out our local cuisine. My wife and I were able to eat at a sit down restaurant for the first time since the lockdown and it was awesome!

I just purchased a good bike rack before the lockdown and I’m itching to some mountain biking. Bonus points if you are into it but there’s no penalty if you’re not LOL.

I enjoy a wide spectrum of music and listen to everything from pop to classical symphony. I don’t really like music that involves electric guitars if the vocals involve unintelligible screaming though.

My favorite movie genre is probably sci-fi. And yes I enjoy Star Wars but I am not a fanatic that knows the series by heart. Jobiwon just roles off the tongue because of my real name, Joe LOL.

I work two jobs and enjoy aspects of them both. But I’m really only working them part time during this pandemic so I have time to meet new people, yay! My day job is with Nalco Water and in the evening I work with Vivint Solar.

I’ve got much more to say but I will give you a chance to get a word in edgewise LOL. If you’ve made it this far you are just the person I want to converse with. Drop me a DM and we can go from there.

Thanks for reading :-)

Joe