Hi there! I know these posts can get a bit unwieldy, so I've written up two versions. (I'm a Virgo Sun, okay. This is what I excel at!)

The short version: I'm new to the Raleigh area (I live about an hour east) and interested in meeting a kind, liberal, ambitious man for cute dates and (possible) sexy times. I'd like to be able to spend time together at least once a week. I'm queer and poly and lean toward ethical non-monogamy, so ideally you'd be flexible towards that. I'm looking for a patient person who is empathetic toward mental health and navigating trauma (because, friends, I’ve got a lot of it!).

I'm 24 years old, tough, tender, and tiny. Sharp as a whip. I'm curvy, with retro-short curly hair, tattooed, and vaguely goth. Think Lena Dunham but 10x cuter and 1000x sweeter. I love affectionate, firm, uplifting, consensual cruelty. That said, curiosity and communication skills are all you need to pique my interest. I love art museums, dive bars, indie movie theatres, punk shows, and any media that makes me step back and reassess the world around me. (I listen to a LOT of therapy and sexual health podcasts, and write a LOT of romance fiction, so that's pretty much all you need to know about me).

The longer version: I've identified as a submissive for a few years, but lately my fantasies have been guiding me towards possibly having a submissive of my very own. I currently work in a craft store (I LOVE it, most days) and have big dreams of becoming a social worker, especially working with marginalized folx. I have depression and anxiety, and while I take medication for it, I have yet to find a good therapist, so I'm working on that. My mental illness has led me to question what my true interests and passions are, and I'm still on that journey.

What I can offer you is, a kind and empathetic soul, a nonjudgmental presence, daily adventures, a nurturing heart, and lots and lots of snuggles. Also, you can use my discount at the craft store if you're my main squeeze, should that be a motivating factor.

I'm seeking a person between 22-35, residing in the Raleigh area and preferably able to host. You're able to express yourself emotionally and be vulnerable; you seek this in others. You live your life with compassion, care, and positivity.

I'd love to know more about you. What makes you tick? What are you passionate about? What are your values? What makes you curious, in and out of the bedroom? Also, what is your sign?

*** IMPORTANT***

Please PM me if interested - and only PM. Also, photos in first message are ideal (but, you know, privacy - I get it!).

Other things that will get you immediately and gleefully blocked:

• You don't live in the Raleigh area and/or you aren't mobile (No long distance.)

• You cannot host (this is a big one tbh)

• You have zero kink experience

• You send me a dick pic

• You attempt to discuss your dick with me (🙄)

• You're creepy and/or overly graphic and/or objectify me in your messages

ps: ONCE AGAIN, NO DICK PICS.

Cheers ✌🏻