I’d love to meet someone, chat a little, then go have a drink or coffee to see if there’s any chemistry. And if there is… who knows?

If that's enough, you don’t need to read any more, but if you want to know more about me, please read the interview below.

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Q: Hello Zenfrog. Your post, above, was pretty vague. Mind if I ask a few questions that might be helpful to the reader?

A: Certainly

Q: First, do you have a car, an apartment or house (not living in your mother’s basement) and a decent job?

A: Yes to all of those questions. I drive older cars because I don’t like car payments. Once, I went on a date and the woman bolted when she saw my car. Sure, she was shallow, but I liked her for shallow reasons too, so that’s fair. I own my own home and I have a nice career. Not to be too specific, but something in finance.

Q: Ever send an unsolicited... anatomical photo?

A: No. that’s no my jam. Once, I did send one, but it was absolutely solicited, and it was to someone I had met in real life.

Q: Any STDs?

A: No. My most recent tests were done 5/21/2019. All clear. Paperwork available upon request

Q: Any addictions?

A: Nope. Just coffee. I don’t think that counts.

Q: Great! Single I assume?

A: Nope. Married. My wife and I are ethically non-monogomus.

Q:Umm… OK. What on earth are you talking about? You’re married? And your wife is OK with this?

A: Yes. We sometimes go out with other people. She knows, she’s supportive. And if you really wanted to talk to her or meet her, that would be fine.

Q: What are you looking for on Reddit? Are you looking to fill a void? Dead bedroom? Are you in a companionate marriage that's unsatisfying?

A: No to all. I’m actually quite happy. I’m just looking for any adventures.

Q: Have you dated somone before while married?

A: Yes. I dated a nice 40 year old woman, and we had a very nice time. Eventually, she called it quits because her husband became uncomfortable with the situation… but we got along great. My wife and her actually became friends for a time.

Q: OK. Are you into video games? Anime? Comics? Star Wars? Star trek? Dungeons and Dragons?

A: Not really.

Q: Do you like podcasts? Board Games? Friendly debate? Trading stories about random things?

A: All of the above.

Q: Have you ever met someone online before?

A: Yes, I’ve met many people on the internet over the years. Positive experiences, mostly.

Q: What age rage are you looking for?

A: Thats hard to say. I don’t typically get along with very young people, so I would probably say in their 30s or 40s. I’ve dated someone as old as 47, and as young as 29. I would be willing to go a bit younger or older than that.

Q: How far away is acceptable?

A: I might be willing to drive an hour to see someone. So if they were willing to drive an hour… the furthest north might be Brattleboro Vermont. East would be Rhode Island. Any part of Connecticut, parts of Massacusets, you get the idea. I once met a fantastic person on Reddit who lives in Vancouver… what the hell? What am I going to do with that?

Q: What do you look like?

A: I’m a white guy, full head of hair, about 5’ 10” and weigh 190. I say I work out about 4 times a week, but that’s aspirational.

Q: Can I ask more questions?

A: Certainly, just post in the comments below or send me a message. Ask me anything.