Hi folks. I've posted before and as a few in the community have advised, I'm going to share a bit more about myself. I'm a married heterosexual man. My wife an I are both ethically non-monogamous. I have steady job in life fire safety for an office building in NYC's financial district. I'm an introvert but not anti-social or shy, I just enjoy my alone time to regenerate from the hustle of the day. I do enjoy going out for a few drinks and conversation and spending time with family and friends. I enjoy the cinema, I can talk for hours a about plot and character development, cinematography, what they did right and where they went wrong. Currently I've been binging on Chinese, Korean and Japanese movies, everything from romantic dramas, to thrillers, period pieces, to horror. I also enjoy listening to podcast on my commute to and from work. You can often spot me zoning out while listening to Freakonomics, (got hooked after I read the books), This American life, Pod Save The World , Pod Save America, (pretty much everything else from the folks at Crooked Media) and Multiamory, Sexplainations and the list goes on. I'm also big Star Trek fan TOS, TNG, DS9, not so much a fan of Discovery. Hey and I'm also hooked on The Orville, the writers of STD take note. If I tell you anything else about myself there won't be much for me to say when I meet you folks out there.

Lets start with what I'm not looking for because that list is pretty short. People with overwhelming baggage and drama. Not looking for one and done encounters nor fwb. People cheating on their partner.

I am looking for real relationships in both friendship and romance. I'm looking for poly-amorous and ethically non-monogamous folks. You are a lady or couple looking for romantic relationship or friendship with an open like minded man. I would prefer those experienced in the Poly lifestyle, but I'm not excluding monogamous ladies who are open to a poly partner. I'm looking for folks of varied interest, personalities and cultures. I enjoy getting to know people and also learning from them. I know it might seem silly but I'm using the age range formula my age divide by 2 plus 7 years for potential partners, so folks 33 and older is my preference, the closer in age the better. I'm also looking for those living and/or working within the five boroughs and Long Island. Finally if you are fan of The Orville, you move up to the top of my list :-).

Anyone interested please tell me a bit about yourself and what you are looking for in a partner. We can meet for coffee or drinks and get to know each other. Looking forward to hearing from and getting know some wonderful people. All the best to everyone.