Slowly moving towards the big FOUR OH. Yeah, I can handle getting older but what I can't handle is the lack of real people on dating sites. Yes, post pics and say nice things about yourself but be it by me that all people are looking for is sex. Yes, the act is great once in a while but what I yearn for is a real connection. Guess it's like a big foot sighting...

I'm a single mom (oh no!) to three boys and own my own house. I work full time and have an odd schedule. I guess that's my flaw...I can't go out to concerts on a whim nor can I just drop everything and go on a random road trips. I'm looking for someone who might actually want to go to a movie once in a while or sit at a coffee shop and really talk.

I'm originally from the Northeast so a lot of people think I'm odd. My sense of humor is a bit dry/sarcastic. I'm a self proclaimed geek and love Back to the Future --who doesn't? I'm 5'6" and got a few extra pounds --working on that part as I type. So I guess if you find chunky white girls with glasses, brown hair/eyes and a weird sense of humor attractive...let's talk!

What I'm looking for: ages 32-43, male human. Prefer that you like being around kids but not that I'm going to bring them along on dates...they are part of my life, just saying. Dog lover? Nice...Cat lover? That's cool. I'm not a vegan/vegetarian but if you are...that's cool but I do enjoy chicken too much to give it up. Hipsters are cool but I can't fit skinny jeans. I'm a non drinker so going to bars and the like isn't my thing --but that doesn't mean you can't. I'm not a smoker and sorry, I'd like to find someone who doesn't either. Drugs? If you have a prescription that's cool but other than that...nahh.

Does all that make me sound picky? Sure...but I'm cool, so shrugs there's that.