Hello
I figured I would reach out to the reddit universe (which is really the only universe that matters) to see if there is anyone out there that wants the same thing as I. I've been on Match.com, OkCupid, Plenty of Fish, and I'm pretty involved IRL. But alas, I can't find anyone! I'm invisible to the opposite sex. Possibly why I post promiscuous photos on the "gone wild" subreddits. I definitely don't think that I am an annoying, attention seeking, girl but I just want to feel sexy and desired like everyone else!
Anyway, I want someone to date. Potentially long term. Potentially, potentially marriage. I want someone who will be my partner and my equal in all elements of daily life. I fetishize about an overly dominant alpha-male figure but realistically I'm far too independent and assertive for that to work long term. I want to be with someone where we motivate each other to live healthy lifestyles, to save money, and pursue further education--anything that needs motivating, rather! I want to be outdoorsy with my partner: camping, hiking, kayaking, road trips, bicycling, et cetera. I also want someone who has similar interests indoors: gaming, movies, cooking...
I really stand by, "everything in moderation" so I want someone that's generally well rounded. I don't like when people are extreme about being nerdy or extreme about athletics for example. It's cool to be a little nerdy, it's cool to go to the gym.. but it drives me nuts when that's all you are. I'm not perfect and I don't expect perfection in anyone. I want to learn and grow with you. I do not want to teach you, groom you, or change you. That happened in a former relationship and put a really bad taste in my mouth. I do not want to be the dominant participant in the relationship.
Let's be creative. Let's be adventurous. Let's be sexual. Let's be giving.
I have a passion for volunteering and I want you to join me. It is an amazing feeling to help someone else! I'm also insanely sexual but I have these little rules I have to follow. I want to be intimate with only a man of significance and there's some sort of relationship growing. Basically, not looking for a fuck buddy so please don't ask?
I went on and on about what I want and I hope it didn't come off as a list of things you must bring to the table. I really want you to read it as things we could do together and be together. At the risk of sounding overly confident on reddit, because we all know how that goes, I think I am a wonderful girlfriend. I'm very loving, affectionate, and serving. I have a lot to offer a man.
So if you're out there, please introduce yourself?

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