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Hello there! I’m a software engineer in the Pittsburgh, PA area. I moved here a few years ago for work and haven’t had any success making friends. My family also lives in other states. Basically, I’m very isolated where I’m at right now, but don’t plan on moving soon due to owning a house here.
I’ve got some baggage, I’ll admit. I’ve been engaged, broke it off because I developed a crush and my therapist pointed out all of the underlying problems. After the broken engagement, I was pretty shattered. I gained some weight, stopped exercising, became very depressed, and casually dated people, including a couple of guys (I learned that I’m not into them). I just recently got out of a relationship that I thought was serious, but I guess not.
With my problems out of the way, if I haven’t scared you off, I do have some good things about myself. I’m a hopeless romantic. I would like to get married one day and have a family. I believe that I want kids, but it’s not a dealbreaker. I like to play guitar, sing, play video games (mostly sports and survival). I’m a big coffee drinker. Lastly, I’ve got a sweet tooth and like to try out different places to eat.
More about me physically: I’m 5’10”, 260lbs with dirty blonde hair and blueish-greenish eyes. We can exchange pictures when we first connect.
I’m ultimately looking for someone to spend my life with. I want to be in a relationship where we can be completely open and honest with each other and support each other in healthy ways. I’m okay with distance, but would like to eventually close the gap.
If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message request and we can see where it goes.
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