Hello everyone, my name is Ryan and I'm looking for a long term relationship with a kind, caring, and dominate woman.

Age/Appearance: I'm 30 years old and I'm open to someone who is at least 24 or older. Attraction, things in common, and maturity matter more though so don't hesitate to message if you align with everything else in my post :). I'm 5'9" with short brown hair and blue eyes with white skin. I recently gained a bit of weight an I'm losing it over the next 3 months (35 lbs to lose).

Location Info: I live in Northern Colorado. Just moved here and finishing a contract. Will be moving to either Boulder, CO or Denver, CO for my next contract. I don't mind starting long distance, but would like to close the gap eventually. Either you moving to me or me trying to find a contract near you to hop onto (might be a bit before I can switch contracts though depending on location).

What I'm looking for: A kind, loyal, and loving partner. Loyalty means everything to me. Ultimately I do want you to be my best friend. I want to travel with you, watch scary movies, cuddle on the coach, maybe get in a food fight, and be weird with you everyday. I would like to spend a good amount of time with my partner so being clingy is a plus. Having your own hobbies and interests is healthy and needed for a long term relationship as well though. I would also like my partner not to smoke or do drugs (including smoking weed).

Interests: I am very much a nerd. I enjoy learning all the time. I am constantly reading, listening to books, watching online tutorials, and I'm even getting another degree now. I have a BS and MS in computer science and now I'm going back to get a degree in physics. I love space and so I'm hoping to get my degree and then start contributing to the field in an engineering capacity. I read both non-fiction and fiction and I'm always looking for recommendations. I also like playing dungeons and dragons. I just moved to 5e from 3.5 and there are some significant differences. I do watch some movies and tv, but not a lot. I am addicted to FROM and fully caught up. I also like Tracker (not caught up yet) and Lioness (finished season 2). I am slowly adding anime into things I've watched so open to recommendations there. I am back in the gym and it has been fun. I do like hiking and love road trips. I need someone to pick a music playlist for us to listen to while I drive. This year I'm also getting my passport and would love to travel with someone. I have a large list of places I want to visit and would love to have company on the way. Especially if you have traveled internationally before. Plan is to start with Portugal in June :).

Personality: I am calm and quiet when someone first gets to know me. I am a more introverted person. I tend to talk more and more as I get to know someone. I am intelligent to the point where I basically live in my head and I will space out thinking of how I could go about solving complex problems. Despite this, I'm actually really good at listening. I'm also a very curious individual and like to figure out how things work. I have gotten better at not taking apart things though and now just spend more time looking up diagrams and thorough explanations. I'm pretty open minded. I don't always agree with everything, but I'm pretty accepting as not much bothers me. I just view everyone as doing the best they can based on how and where they grew up. So, don't be afraid to be honest with me.

Politics & etc.: Politically an independent. Quality education is important to me. I spent a lot of the last 8 years volunteering with kids on the weekends and in the evenings. Trying to fill gaps in education and helping them better succeed earlier in life. Hoping to focus on myself the next couple years and building a life with a partner instead.

Work related stuff: I am a software engineer. I just moved to Colorado for work and have met acquaintances, but no close friends yet. Hoping someone can help me change that. I am career oriented and make a good wage. My partner can be career oriented or not. I just like when a partner pursues something she is interested in and can tell me about it so I can support her.

Kinks/Physical stuff starts here

Overview: I am a switch leaning sub kink wise. I am capable of being dominate, but I would prefer not to. I keep my kink interests completely private and would ask those that I message do the same. I have never gotten to really explore my submissive side fully and would love to find someone who would do this with me. Mommy dom's and someone into gentle femdom are kind of who I'd like to find. Someone loving that also makes me feel secure and like I can put my trust in her completely.

Interests:

• Pleasing my partner and making them smile or feel good is very important to me. Guiding me to make you happy, will make me happy.
• Having a partner that is somewhat possessive towards me will make me melt in your hands like putty.
• My kinks include a foot fetish, bondage, spitting, cei, breast worship, anr, sensory play, face sitting, and etc. More than open to trying new things as well.
• Love Languages: Physical Touch and Quality time.

Limits: Blood, permanent marks/injuries, scat, blood, cbt, cuckolding, chastity, drugs, smoking, and anything illegal.

End of Kinks/Physical stuff

Dealbreakers:

• Not brushing your teeth.
• Being extremely unhealthy.
• You must be monogamous with me.
• Must be able to communicate and comprise with a partner.
• Not interested in exploring the non-vanilla side of me.
• Being drunk a lot.
• You smoke or do drugs (including weed). Sorry, just not my thing.

Hopefully I didn't miss anything and feel free to ask me to clarify anything that I wasn't completely clear on or missed. I'm more than willing to answer.