Married and in an open relationship/ethically non-monogamous. I'm up front about this because I know it'll discourage many and that's okay. ENM isn't for everyone and I'm not here to try swaying you or anything. If you're okay with it, great! If you're not, that's cool, I hope you find everything you're looking for!

Okay, now that that's out of the way. 40, no kids, which means I have a fair amount of free time and ability to chat and potentially travel, depending on the when and the where. I have birds, though, and they are adorable (If not occasionally little turds). I'm a nerd, a gamer, and a pretty level-headed guy. I'm not pushy when it comes to pictures, I don't care if you need to take a week or three or ten to deal with whatever curveball life throws at you. I value communication because, hey, we've all got our own lives to live. If you tell me you need time away or space or what have you, I'll have infinite patience because I understand what that's like.

I'm a D&D DM, I'm a sports fan (Lions and Tigers and Red Wings, oh my!), I don't drink or smoke or do drugs, aside from maybe one or two mixed drinks on vacation MAYBE. I am 420 friendly though, I simply don't partake. I watch all the Marvel shows and movies. After being laid off for my job some time ago, I decided to go back to college full time to pursue my Bachelor's degree.

What am I looking for? Conversation, friendship. Maybe more, if that's something you're interested in. If you clearly lay out boundaries, I'll stick to them. We can discuss just about anything and everything; I do lean left politically and my views reflect that, but I generally am not a person who enjoys having large amounts of political discourse.

Feel free to reach out and mention mac and cheese - it's pretty delicious, after all!