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๐๐Greetings Everyone!! Hope you are keeping well. I am currently a number of weeks from moving to Perth from Ireland. A big move, so I hope it all works out. FYI this is a long long post, so just a head's up, but I think it's worth a read if you have a few minutes, I've tried to make it entertaining and easy to follow. Just fyi, I'll link a pic of me in it and there will be NSFW elements, feel free to check my posts on other subs for more detail or ask me if you want.
What I hope you'll notice if I have written it well enough is the strong theme of dichotomy. My longing to combine two great areas in relationsips that I have struggled to find together. Wholesome love with hard kink.
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๐ก๏ธ๐คตABOUT ME: M, 32, 6'3, lean build, brown hair, short red tinged beard. Happy to verify after a few messages. ISTJ, employed full time with stylish dress sense to match. I like to think I'm caring, noting the little details, easy to get on with and a great sense of humour, I would describe it as a mix of dry wit and well timed sarcasm. I'm confident, I stand up for and back my partner, I'm kind, when I see a cat I have to say, "ohh kitty". I'd like to get a cat or dog in the future. And despite what you might think when you read the nsfw bits later, quite liberal. I so throughly enjoy lying up on the sofa cuddling and watching TV giving head scratches.
๐๐ฎI enjoy lots of things, but to name a few, I'm definitely a total nerd. I love Star Wars, LOTR, Warhammer, games - both video, board and roleplaying. I enjoy chilling while watching TV and movies. Lots of Youtube content, I have a premium because I get a lot of my entertainment content on it. Standard Youtube now has so many ads I don't think I could go back, I enjoy a channel called Mystery Quest - great roleplaying channel. I like a bit of outdoors stuff don't get me wrong, but if your idea of fun is a 5am run everyday, I can just tell you now that's a pass from me even though I do like to keep in shape.
โ๏ธ๐๏ธ Would like to do a bit of travel around SE given Perth's location.
๐ง ๐คI'm self aware enough to bring to mind some of my own, not necessarily negative character traits, but certainly one's that others pick up on. I'm reserved and quiet at times, it's just me. Maybe I prefer to call it unintentional stocism.
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ABOUT WHAT I'M SEEKING I'm in the position now were i'm seeking a long term, sex positive relationship with open communication and enjoyment of eachother's company. Heavy on both kink and nurturing love. To put it another way, I want my best friend who i'm wildly attracted to.
I'm about to start a new job in Perth, so there's going to be an adjustment period for everything for a few months. But I do have goals I want to achieve over the next few years. I want to get a place around a year or so after arriving. Also, head on several more holidays in and out of the country, and around 5 years be moving towards ๐ and potentially children.
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๐ซต๐ฉโโค๏ธโ๐โ๐จABOUT YOU - Honestly, I'm a sucker for a smile and kind eyes looking up at me. So much so I had to look up features of the eyes to describe it. Such as limbal rings in the iris. It melts my heart. It's hard to put anything defining after that, but shyness with a spark of joy is also very endearing. Up to 30 years old and located in Perth or surrounding areas, or very frequently in the area, I'm aware there is a lot of FIFO in WA. (Potential for wider afield i.e all of Australia / global, but you must have already had an interest in moving to Australia or be able to relocate in short order, cause long distance isn't for me). No drugs please. Open to children. Similar interests and hobbies, and also your own ones that you are passionate about. Like do you get super hyped about drawing. Fuck yeah you do, show me that shit. That's awesome work sweetheart. Open to kinky interests, that's quite important, more details below. Also, if we're sleeping, you have to put your leg over mine so I can grab and hold on to it. Those are just the rules. Also also, I'm a relentless purveyor of kisses.
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That's about it for the SFW for work part, I'm sure I could add more, but don't want to tell you my whole life story, what would be left for you to be curious about. The next part is NSFW so be aware before continuing.
โ๏ธ๐NSFW - I'll try and keep the details brief as we can chat away about it when messaging, but obviously all my kinks and desires are to be acted upon from a bedrock of consent, respect and safety. Labels are hard but if I were to choose a specific theme to give you at least some idea what I'm about, probably a dom leaning on master, into a bit of sadism. So ideally you would be a sub with masochist leanings, with an interest in DDLG, devotion and service oriented submission.
I also have a more complete kink list sheet, if you want an idea of what I'm into, just don't want to go into detail here. It's one of those standard ones you find online, but I decided to zhuzh it up a little and add my own sections to it including some SFW parts. If you have suggestions I'm happy to hear them.
Cool, if you've made it this far, congrats, and I'm glad to have held your interest. But! Do put some effort in, since you've taken the time to get invested. Hey's will be ignored. Tell me a bit about yourself, where ya from, what did you like most, what are your kinky interests, how old you are, maybe even a picture of you as attraction is important afterall.
Honestly, I've had to super edit this down from what I originally wrote in order to get it approved, I have no idea why it kept blocking it. I may post the original up if you want to read that.
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