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Just turned 24 recently, and I'm tired with only having "friends" (just known people I'll probably stop seeing/talking again after maybe a year or two). Not that I'm just looking for a long-term friendship, but something more than just yapping. I'm interested in getting more intimate with someone, to cut off from the routine human interactions that I'm used to all the time. I'm not looking for a relationship, as I've dated a few times and they did not last longer than a few months, not going any further than talking and hanging out, and only hurting each other in the end. A lot of time invested for nothing.
Another reason why I'm looking for a friend with benefit relationship has to do with accumulated stress I've been carrying from currently taking my master's degree, and I want to blow some steam off so I don't feel like my life is just work -> home -> work -> home.
We can do the same stuff friends usually do, but my goal is to also have sex every now and then.
Despite not having any experience, I'm interested in being a pleasure dom, learning how to make you cum over and over again until your mind goes blank. I'm also interested in Shibari, meaning you'd be tied up the entire time, helplessly twitching and moaning in pleasure. Bonus with a gag and blindfold on. That is, of course, if you're comfortable with being tied up, if not, we could just do things more vanilla.
Some other kinks I'm interested: CNC, Acarophilia (getting scratched), Odaxelagnia (Bitting), Haematomania and Intoxication.
If none of these kinks are of interest to you, I'm open to explore whatever you'd prefer doing.
I'm 1,70 m tall, white, skinny (60 kg, 6.4% body fat), dark medium hair. I'll share my instagram once you verify yourself.
My favorite music genres are metalcore, shoegaze & witch house, and I'm into collecting band merch whenever I can afford it. I enjoy anything with horror, whether it is movies, games, books, manga, especially with gore.
I don't have a type in women, but I'd prefer if you were not fat. I know it sounds insensitive, but my dates were fat, and it was kind of impractical/awkward to cuddle with them. Looking back on it, it was kind of funny, but for what I intend, it just wouldn't be practical.
I'd also prefer if you're living around Lisbon, which is where I live, making possible to meet each other more frequently. But it's not a big problem if you're not from around Lisbon.
I do need to emphasize on this - I'm not seeking friends. I'm seeking friends with benefits. I'm trying to enjoy my 20s as much as I can, and I haven't had anything more than just superficial human connections.
Aside from these preferences, anything goes. You can be from any race, height, country - I'm not picky.
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