I think my approach and mindset here needs some explaining. I came to reddit with one idea. To find the people I otherwise wouldn't meet in my day to day. At work, in tech sales. Within my friend group. My volunteering. I meet a lot of people, good people. Bad people. thats life. But I haven't met anyone I could say " yeah, I want them in my life, to sit on my face. And other things. Of course."

Especially the volunteering, since it was mostly alongside older folks. But man. There was this one lady. OOh boy. If she wasn't married.

Man.

uh. ..Oh. I also sometimes like to do things with my friends. I asked my friend to make a post here. Its going just as well as I thought it would. Only attracting the lowest common denominator. I get asked sometimes why I'm friends with people that I disagree with about so much. And. There's one thing that have set them apart from even my more morally upstanding people I have met.

They are in your corner. All the time. Every time. I can only say that one decent thing about them. Other than that. Eh.

Oh. Whats my goal here. Well. My original goal was to find someone I can care about. Frolic with into the future. Thats not working out too well. Incompatibility. Distance. The fact I'm black. Take your pick as to the problem. If there's one thing I wish I could see its the amount of people that were gung ho about reading my post that just now clicked out when I said that part.

But. I mean. I'm great. So. Its only a matter of time.

So. Oh. Uh. I gotta study so I'll finish this up with some details.

I'm 6'1. Single. No kids. None wanted. Creampies are exclusively cause I operate on freak timing 2/5 times we are gonna interact. THe other 3? Uh.

I like naps, potatoes and thick ladies. Curvy. Voluptuous. If you have made a neck or two snap back in your time, I'm talking to you. But. Unfortunately I'm one of those people that place the fattest premium on character. Identity. So. Whoops.

Growth. Compassion. Bathing. Yada yada.

Uh.... Yeah Study time. And I have to do a lot of it cause I fucking. SUCK