I've come to find that there are a few different types of intimacy that can be experienced with a partner, but also that some of those are more rare and hard to come by. And furthermore, that there are one or two that are rather unorthodox, as well.

Adult nursing is not a "new" concept by any means, but I do feel that when brought into the mainstream, there are some negative connotations to it, or some may just think it to be weird, arguably so.

So, with that said, I would also point out that of the portion of men who enjoy adult nursing, I don't belive that I view the act in the same ways as they do. Just slightly different...

Before sharing my own personal thoughts on the "why", however, this is r4r and not a specialized sub for nursing, so here is but one scenario regarding what I feel adult nursing is and has the potential to be :

We slowly are waking up in bed together, coming out of morning grogginess and beginning to find each other. I roll over towards you, eyes still closed, and your hand finds mine, gently guiding me up your torso and to your breast. I let out one of those "Mmm" moans, signaling my desire for you, and my eyes open as my palm and fingers grasp you firmly, but with care. Maybe you are wearing a lace bralette that I can feel all of you through. I come closer to you, enveloping your body in mine and you feel me press into the side of your outter thigh at the same time that I pull back that lace and expose your already hard nipple to me. I'm waking up more by this point and we meet in a moment of eye contact were I'm holding you and you're holding me, skin on skin, while my lips move ever closer to your begging nipple. I see your lower lip curl inward in anticipation for what is to come next, and in that moment, my tongue and lips meet your skin for not the first time, but the first time that day, and you feel me latch on to your soft breast, suckling and holding you. I listen to your soft sighs of relief, and we continue, just as this, nothing more and nothing less. Together in a moment where we are in each others space and...enjoying.

Now, how does this scene relate to, say, the title of my post? I don't think that as a woman I need to mansplain that to you, but what I will say is that I want that out of our potential nursing. I want us to feel close, bonded. I want us to be able to have an act and something that brings us close together and allows us to feel that we are there for each other. The phrase "I need you right now" ( to signal wanting to nurse ) comes to mind often. The desire for your partner and to be in their space and in their presence. To feel close and connected to them. The acy itself is more of a representation of coming Together more than it is about the act itself. Inherently, it is however a sexual act, and one that could and should lead to other places, furthuring that bond.

Some other quick points: - Nursing can be "dry" or "wet", depending on if you're lactating or not - I don't have a preference for either, so if you don't have a desire to lactate, that is jot a deal breaker for me. The "nursing" can happen in either case. - That said, for those who don't know and are interested, it is possible to induce lactation outside of pregnancy, and though it is a lot of work, can be worth it. - I don't have a preference for a particular body type, but overall attraction is important when building connections. This is me: https://imgur.com/a/CZeCEwn

Please do include a couple pics of yourself as well when you respond, and please only respond to this if you find me attractive as well. - Of the locations I mentioned above, I am in PA in the Lehigh Valley, on the boarder of NJ, so I am open to a bit of travel if needed - And lastly, I ask that you put at least, you know, 5 minutes of effort into your response? I will not respond to "I saw your post", no matter how hot you think you are. Intimacy and connection are of the mind, not the body...