A little about me: I love Anime and gaming, building things, learning to repair cool old stuff, messing around vintage gear, taking roadtrips, photography, cool crafts and projects, and the list goes on and on! I’m a big chatterbox and have a lot of energy and drive for the people, passions, and interests that matter most in my life. I know that’s not always for everyone but it’s a part of who I am at my core and it would be wonderful to find someone who embraces and embodies that spirit too!

Well, at this point you must be asking…Why am I looking for someone taller and/or larger? It comes to mind how often I’ve asked myself things like: Why can’t I be the small one? Why can’t I be the little spoon? Why can’t I have the rush of looking up into someone’s eyes as they soar over me and make me swoon?

Most importantly: Why don’t I simply open up about what I’m looking for?

When it comes to what I’m l seeking physically in a partner, I need someone bigger and or taller than I. Be it significantly in one way or the other! I want to grip onto someone someone taller, larger, and all around bigger. Someone whose body is nurturing, womanly, powerful, and headily, uncompromisingly real, who wants to be tightly embraced to the same way I too need to be held. To be given a mutual sense of belonging and comfort around someone who also understands how intensely personal and significant what I’m feeling can be.

Despite happily standing at a stately 5’11 and 230lbs I’ve had this need to be being with someone taller or larger than I deeply yearning in me for so long in my life. I know I’m not the shortest or smallest guy in a few ways, and I realize that means accepting some hard truths about the reality of finding who I’m seeking and accepting some compromises in that regard. But at its core what I really want is a meaningful connection, and it would be delightful to embrace that and see where it leads. Yet, intimately I have a very strong but loving personality, and also have a delicate and gentle side that needs care, as this post has hopefully shown. It would be so nice having someone to take fun day trips together with and feel a smile peek out when we glance over at each other in the car. Snapping pictures of one another and getting that wonderful feeling of my breath being taken away through the viewfinder. Go to arcades and game stores so we can mutually geek out with one another. Get that warm feeling inside while cooking dinner as a pair when we busily dance around each other in the kitchen. Talk cute smack and steal hugs and affection while gaming or playing things together. Or simply being able to cuddle or lay side by side and happily relax with someone who I can share my true self with. To feel understood and embraced by someone would be a dream come true, and if you’ve made it this far then I hope to find that in you.