Hi there, Welcome to my post!

I am honestly a bit exhausted in this dating game, endless swiping on faces in apps, meeting in questionable bars etc. and I am ready to meet someone I intend to be with for a long time. Someone I could grow to genuinely trust. I care more about the substance of you as a person. Obviously physical attraction does matter but you don't need to be perfect or even skinny. I just want that person I really click with who makes my heart swell with joy. I want to be truly excited by someone again. Just a kind, sweet person deep down who wants something real. I am very romantic and friendly, and want to meet my best friend for life. Please speak english well, and live inside the US!

I live in a small town here in NC and don't really get the opportunity to meet people outside of work too often, but I am a genuinely sweet guy who just wants that special spark with someone again. I want to meet a girl who will hijack my weekends and prevent me from becoming a workaholic, lol. Long story short, I want to enjoy quality time together even if it means just voice chatting at first. If you show me that you're worth it, I will make you a big priority. I am very romantic and sweet.

I have a stable career, college educated, and in good financial standing with no real debt or criminal record. I work two jobs and have a bachelors degree, and would love to meet someone for this new year of 2025. 🫶

I enjoy a variety of different things. I love video games/PC gaming, the outdoors, hiking, road trips, traveling, listening to music, being creative, reading, long drives, watching movies or shows, and listening to podcasts. If you play certain games, I will gladly play them with you! I'm also open to trying new hobbies with my partner.

I'm an average looking slightly nerdy but masculine guy. I'm 5'8, white, have curly hair, and have an average physique. Not fat but not skinny either. I think I look decent. I will be glad to swap pics once we've been chatting for a little while. I am an INTJ / Ambivert.

I would like to chat here for a bit and then move to something else. Then hopefully voice chat and see if we actually vibe. Please don't 👻 me either by the way... Remember the human on the other end and respectfully let me know that you aren't feeling it. I am only looking for people who are US based primarily.

Ideally, this would result in a situation where we meet up and be a real couple at least at some point after talking for a while, but sometimes things like that aren't meant to be. But are you willing to find out by messaging me? 🫶

When you reply, describe your ideal first date idea and we can discuss that and use it for an icebreaker.