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The title is blunt but it's the truth, under all the pretensions.
We're all here looking for something we feel like we're missing, or that could add to our lives. I go to meetups and go on occasional dates but lately I've been feeling isolated, nigh lonely. Whatever connections I'm making just aren't fulfilling the need I feel inside.
I have an enriching life, pets, a full-time job. My life isn't lacking by any means. But I still feel the urge to look for whatever it is I'm missing. Is it validation? Proof I exist? I'm not sure.
Thus, I've boiled it down to the basics. What interaction would improve my mood? Would doing a response in kind improve the other person's?
Looks aren't everything and no two definitions of pretty are going to be the same, but that's what I'm looking for right now. I'm on the better side of average myself, and won't put forth any implications I'm something more than I am.
I hope to establish an ongoing connection with someone. Let's exchange attention and affection soon, we might be what the other is looking for.
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