Hello. My name is Ian. Thanks for taking time to read my post! https://imgur.com/a/FC1bbTU#C84NNlO

I am putting myself out here fully in an attempt to find a life partner. The amount of fakes, flakes and AI I have to deal with is absurd. I'm a real man looking for a real woman for a real relationship.

I'm a 35 year old man in Tampa seeking my forever little/pet.

I will ask you to verify/video chat with me soon into us talking. Please send photos of yourself in your first message.

I am hoping to find someone in or near (Under an hour away) from me in the Tampa area. I am open to online connections and seeing where they can go also... but I genuinely need something real and tangible in my life.

If you're distant and not open to relocating to Tampa this probably wouldn't work. My job is pretty tied to this area. Unless you have ability/means to support me relocating. I am open to moving from Florida at this point in time.

If you're distant and not open to relocating to Tampa this probably wouldn't work. My job is pretty tied to this area.

Brief

I want someone to go play pool with, stay home and board game with, dance with, introduce to my family/friends as mine, try new places, host parties with, go to events with and grow old with living life.

I hope to find someone who is short (4'9-5'6) as I am very tall at 6'2 and hope to find someone active and with a high drive that can keep up with me. Bonus points if you're petite/smol! That's just my type.

I have some NSFW details about me in other posts on my profiles as well as detailed stories about my past if you would like more insights into who I am and how I think.

Really hope I find my munchkin.

About Me

I'm a 35 year old man in the Tampa area. I own a pool cleaning company. My hobbies are cooking, billiards, model hobbying (Gunpla/Warhammer 40k), reading, walking,, board games and reading reddit of course!

I've mainly tried to use my reddit to help home owners overwhelmed with their pools. I aim to some day use this account for my work but I figure in the mean time I may as well look for love.

I am a trained chef, love spend time together, cuddler, buy you personal and well thought through gifts, take you to special places and bond with you on the deepest levels.

I have a cat named Raymond. We're a package deal. Poor dude has a tummy condition and requires a special diet. He is the worlds SWEETEST cat though and he has the BEST cat Daddy who keeps him safe. He plays well with other animals! https://imgur.com/a/exSZlrf

I'm a liberal who believes in equality and supports women's rights. I'm not interested in MAGA types. At all. I read/watch news daily. I am super informed and current on players/events in American politics. I've been actively participating in politics since 2000.

I'm ready for a serious relationship. I'm hopeful to find someone who's going to be 110% about me. I want to be 110% about someone. To embrace someone fully and to also be embraced fully.

Someone who has time for me and ability to talk with me. I am a big communicator. You can expect me to send you detailed and timely replies to the best of my abilities through the days. Clearly from my post length you can see I'm a big talker.

I'm in a billiards league and would love to find someone to bring with me to it weekly. I'm sort of always stag and I'd love having someone in the peanut gallery who I can have rooting for me. I can also teach you how to play if you don't know how!

I prefer audio messaging due to my having to drive a lot. Hopefully this isn't any issue.

I want to be a priority for someone and to have someone as my priority. I am a caregiver in my heart and enjoy being able to provide for someone I care for.

I'm a good guy. My mom raised me to be a proper gentleman. I am not looking for hook ups or one night stands. I genuinely want to find a relationship. I do not sleep around. I have manners.

I want to take care of the person who takes care of me.

I eat healthy mostly. I was a culinary student in high school/college. I eat meat but I'm big on eating vegetables also so if you're vegan or vegetarian don't sweat! I've got you covered.

I'm very clean and sort of a germaphobe. I wash my hands a ton. You never have to worry about me touching you with dirty hands. Ever.

I love going to new places and trying new foods. I love sweets as well. Esp fruit stuff. Mango ANYTHING. Recently discovered watermelon/chamoy/lime/tajin and I cannot get enough!

My work is very demanding to keep me fit but time wise and energy wise so I don't currently work out at a gym. I am in the process of trying to change things so I can start lifting weights. I enjoy being active and sweating.

I'm a former martial artist. I'm trained in a couple different styles. I would love having someone I could teach some basic self defense to! Or maybe even spar someone skilled?! Teaching you how to protect yourself is a big deal to me.

I am very entrepreneurial. I enjoy designing business models since 15 and I also study game design and player psychology to create my own board games some day.

It's important to me that physical touch be something you enjoy. It's my primary love language. I require lots and lots of hugs also. Cuddling too. Especially during a movie/late night tv session.

I want nothing more than for us be compatible in every and experience true compersion over the others life experiences.

I'm a sexual person. Learning about you and what you enjoy is something I will love doing. I hope to find a partner who will enjoy learning about me.

I am a take charge type. I am very adventurous and open minded to many things. I am someone who enjoys the pleasures life has to offer and giving them in return.

I enjoy Rap music, Rock music, some EDM and Pop music. I do not like country music. I played guitar as a teen and still can but don't really anymore. I love to enjoy music on my sound system though. I want to feeeeel that bass. I love subwoofers. My room rattles. Set it to "JUMP" and leave it there.

About You

I am looking for someone who is aged 25 ideally. Is in the Tampa area, close to it or is moving here soon.

I'm hopeful to meet someone I can build something serious with. Living together. Marriage. I'm not sure about having kids. The world is kind of a mess...

You should enjoy trying new places/foods! I will try to expand your horizons. I love to go on adventures.

You're motivated, healthy and active. You enjoy to dress up and wear nice clothes. At least from time to time. (Special occasions for sure!)

You are active. Maybe you do yoga or some kind of pilates type regiment. Maybe you just go to the gym and walk/lift a little weight. Maybe martial arts? You enjoy moving your body and getting a little hot/sweating doesn't bother you.

I'm sort of a giant and prefer women who are on the shorter side ( /-4'9-5'8) but that doesn't mean I don't like or appreciate tall beautiful women who are into me also.

You should be nerd adjacent. If you're not into nerd culture then you should at least be open to embracing that I am. I will love to hear about stuff you geek out over. Please tell me about your passions and hobbies!

You are someone sexual. You want a man who loves you physically and mentally and cannot get enough of you. You love that I know how to talk to you and touch you in just the ways you enjoy. Our energies feed off of one another.

You are liberal. You may not be strongly opinionated or outspoken but you definitely have your wits about you in the political arena and can carry a conversation about current events to at least some degree. You absolutely support women's rights and are pro LGBTQ .

You're not majorly religious. You may be spiritual or may practice faith in some degree but organized religion should be a turn off for you.

You don't smoke cigs (weed is fine) and you're not an alcoholic/heavy drinker. Getting drunk here and there is fine but defintely not something you're doing nightly or multiple times through your week. You respect alcohol.

You're a clear and effective communicator. You take the time to send detailed responses to the best of your abilities. You can tell me what you'd like, when you'd like it and how you'd like it to your best ability. You can be direct. Don't shut down in conflict. Certainly capable of forming together a text message that's more than one to four words.

You enjoy gaming! Playing board games with friends or video games is something you enjoy doing from time to time. You enjoy engaging in fantasy/pretend. Maybe not Dungeons and Dragons style “role playing”... but you enjoy allowing yourself to slip into another universe or a characters mindset!

That's about all I can think of for now but I'm sure I will add to this while I'm searching...

If you actually made it this far please send me the word "Icing" so i know you've actually read my post! I will likely ignore your reply if you don't send this.

Please feel free to send me your photo and any information about yourself you'd like for me to know about you!

If you like what you see and read let's talk! Chat soon? Ian