I've a 35M who's been looking for you for a while. I thought I did a few times, but boy was I wrong. I'm sure you've experienced the same.

This is the signal fire I'm going to keep lit for you, in the hopes that you'll come across it one day.

You've never felt understood or cared for the way you have always needed. Some have tried, even fewer have come close, but none have ever quite met your needs.

Despite what feels like the Universe conspiring against you, you manage to persevere, stay positive (even though sometimes it can be so hard), and even thrive.

All you've ever needed was to have someone you know in your bones was in your corner, cheering you on. Someone you know always has your back. Someone who sees you, gets you, and accepts you for who you are, and who you're becoming. Your ride or die.

You've always given your partner your all, even when you've received crumbs.

Neglect is something you've grown accustomed to your entire life, but you're looking to break the cycle.

You're looking for something long term, deep, meaningful. A delicate, fun, playful balance of wholesome and depravity.

You've always felt like an outsider, never quite fitting in no matter what group you find yourself a part of.

Music has always and will always play a crucial role in who you are.

You'll come to learn I'm all of the above - just like you.

The Fine Print

Not looking for anything online only. Ideally you're here in SoCal, but if not LDR/in person is the goal.

Physical attraction - I have a strong preference for petite, pale skin (happy to exchange pics to establish mutual attraction)

Bonus Points

You regularly attend music festivals (LMK your favorite in your first reply)

Send me one of your favorite songs in your first reply

You value fitness or are interested (I'd love to help with this)

You put effort in your first rely (yes, I actually have to write this)

Thanks for reading! I hope to hear from you soon.