I'm a white 29M looking to built a long term relationship with someone that loves bondage. I've been exploring the BDSM world for a couple of years and have learned a lot about it and where I belong in it. One thing I've come to realize is that I crave the intimacy in exploring rope and kink with a partner. While tying casually was amazing, the feelings of taking things to the next level and indulging in each other is something I love the idea of.

Vanilla stuff: I'm a bit over 6'0 and work full time remote in the Northern Virginia area. I have a townhouse and a roommate that keeps to herself. Ideally we'd be around the same area but I don't mind a bit of a drive! After work I love to hit the gym: getting a good workout in has been so good for stress, health, and just a general day-to-day feeling. Weight loss is my #1 goal at the moment and I'm getting into more active hobbies like hiking and casual sports (I have a picture of me on my profile, comment your favorite color so I know you've seen it). I also like videogames, watching show/movies/anime, going to concerts, and grabbing food/drinks at new places.

Kink: Besides rope, I also like impact play, praise, cnc, degradation, blindfolds, toys, roleplay, and orgasm denial/overstim. My limits are scat, bloodplay, ageplay, and polyamory. I've been in the rope scene for about a year through learning knots/ties, attending rope events, and tying casually a couple of times. I love being able to restrain a partner and do things I know they really enjoy. I'd also like to do casual bondage and tying to help relax: maybe watching a movie or shibari to lab together.

I'm looking to build a serious relationship and have the intimacy flourish in and out of the bedroom. Spending time together, building trust, being excited to explore things with each other. Not looking to rush into anything: I want to take the time to get to know each other before anything sexual happens. If this interests you, please reach out! I'd love to hear about your hobbies or what you're into!