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So, the year’s coming to a close, cuffing season is soon to be upon us and I’m still single, I feel like it’s time to finally change that. I’ve been looking on and off for about a year now and I’ve decided to give it one more shot and I’m going about it with a better mindset now I think.
I’ll get to the point, I aim to date to marry, I’d say I bring a lot to the table, and my ideal man would be someone who feels similar too. I think a relationship is best when we both bring equal value to the relationship, even if we aren’t necessarily equals in every way. I prefer a man who can lead, but not one who is abusive, or unnecessarily bossy. I want something real and healthy, just also traditional.
I’m religious, however you don’t have to be as long as you can respect that I am. I lean conservative, however I’m not rabid in my views and if you aren’t either. That shouldn’t be a problem either!
Day to day you’ll find me in a gym, at my desk, in a coffee shop, on a hiking trail, with friends or, when I’m very lucky, in a swimming pool. I’m a pretty active and outdoorsy person, so if you’re a man who can pitch a tent, build a fire, chop wood (yum) we will definitely get on. I also love the gym, but if isn’t your idea of fun, that’s okay, just as long as you’re healthy and in good shape overall. I plan on living a long time, and I want a big family, so I want a man who I can do that with!
Physically, I’m not super picky, I’m short so most of you reading this will be much taller than me. Pretty much just be put together, hygienic and a decent weight for your height. I do love a nice beard and smile though. I’m blonde, athletic and I can clean up nicely and rock a nice dress when the occasion demands it, but day to day I’m either in gym clothes or comfy clothes.
Touched on this earlier but I want a big family one day, ideally at least 3-5 kids (hopefully more tbh) so hopefully that’s your dream too. I have a stable career currently but after kids I’d probably prefer to stay home, it’s what my mom did for me, and I think it’s best for kids and everyone else as well. Kids need a consistent parent around. My dream is to move into the country somewhere, with a good school nearby, a good community and nature right at our doorstep. Think a modern homestead type of vibe.
So I think that’s all for now, hope this interests some of you! Send me a chat if so! ♥️
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