Just looking for a man I can respect and adore and want to devote myself to and who will cherish protect and care for me.

Non vanilla please

me: fair, blue eyes, dark blonde white adjacent (foreign white american(eastern european descent) working class/poor no accent i was born here but I'm not rich fancy white like western europeans) muslim non religious 5'4 105 lbs cute

you: taller than me, larger/stronger etc and preferably darker. prefer non white but if you are not fancy white it might be ok but I respect hardworking men who haven't had things handed to them

I am not looking for someone who is close by in NJ that's just where I live, that's not one of my requirements. I just want someone who would be willing to come to me and eventually relocate me to him if it works out. I'm not stuck here but I do have a job here that's not remote. I'm looking for a man who is traditional and willing to take responsibility for a little. I'm not looking for an age gap relationship as I like men close to my age or older who do not look like they could be my actual father. I look younger than I am so I don't want it to be weird. I want to be able to put my energy into a man I respect and adore. Right now I put it into my job because I need to support myself but I have no time to devote to a man the way I want to. My end goal would be to be able to devote myself and worship him because I want to not because he expects it. I don't have any specific needs or wants or things I would do for/with you because every relationship is different. So please do not ask me my "kinks" or send me a copy paste message that shows that you didn't read my post. I don't care about your "kinks" because sexual things come later. Right now I am concerned about building a bond and wanting to have a ddlg/bdsm lifestyle that is mostly not in the bedroom. The bedroom bit is the easiest and most basic so if I don't have the devotion and respect for you outside of the bedroom it's hardly more than a vanilla relationship.