Hi ladies! So you clicked on me! We both are thinking sigh, here we go again - trying to find what we want in this messy, online world! Dont be discouraged. Ill lay it all out from my end now so you might want to put your reading glasses on! What im seeking (for now) is not a hookup but a similar mindset/wants (high libido, crave substance, love deep unfiltered convos, heavy on the banter/sarcasm and fly your freak flag high) Youre tired of the “you up?” Texts. You want more. Me too so lets just chat , vibe, flirt and go from there?

I also really want to emphasize that i prefer someone who considers themselves outgoing, bubbly and talkative. I dont think dating/meeting new people should be easy but sometimes i feel like a lot of peoples outlook on this is regressing. Im not gonna worry about things i cant control but all this should be FUN.

Who i am: Single, Tall (6’0”), DDF, thick, bearded male who most likely will be able to toss ya around the bedroom. I work in nuclear safety 🤓and travel all over IL for it so distance doesnt mean much to me (prefer city/nw burbs)

I pride myself on being a raw, respectful, blunt individual. Firm believer that communication & effort needs to be honored. Team work makes the dream work!! Dom tendencies but very social, spontaneous and playful. If you cant dish sarcasm, banter and wittiness like we are playing ping pong - i dont want it!

Hobbies: reading, writing, art, cooking, watching sports/docs/thriller movies, lifting, holistic/wellness practices, stealing memes, random road trips, spontaneous acts, trying new coffee spots/restaurants.

Kinks: D/S, CNC, TPE. Oral enthusiast. Anal/ass play - none of these are “must haves”. The most important thing to me is fun, flexibility and an open mind. Honestly, ill be more intrigued by what YOU enjoy.. im all ears…

Shoot me a PM if this intrigues you and please provide some info about yourself/whatcha looking for etc when you reach out. Exchanging pics/verification is a must. Very open to meeting prior (coffee/dinner etc)