I've been around kink a while, at least long enough to know what works for me. The strongest connections I've made were not predicated on sex. It was there, always looming in the background, but the in-between conversations established an ongoing excitement. If sex is the foundation, chemistry is the artful styling. That seems like a pretty good thing to look for, right?

ME: I'm a writer. I'm slightly ridiculous. I mess around in photoshop and have more hobbies than I can keep track of. Friends say they are never sure what I am going to say, which is glowing praise. I have moments of being deeply unserious, but I do my best to never be disingenuous, even if being myself gets me in a little trouble socially. I'd consider myself an extrovert-leaning introvert; nerdy, but in a fun and social way.

I'd like to think I'm fit and decent looking. I wouldn't call myself an egomaniac, but I've got a good thing going on. Having that center makes it easy to feel comfortable with myself and comfortable behind the wheel. But I don't always want to be in control; sometimes it's nice not having to think, turning off my brain and letting someone else lead.

What I'm looking for: I don't believe in boxes, but there are trends. I like musicians and artsy types; nerdy, quiet bookworms; loud, girly brats. If your personality stands out, in all likelihood I'll be into it. That being said, a woman with a touch of "knows she's got it going on" will make me absolutely melt. Or make me laugh and we're golden.

Physicality: By now, you know I am into petite women; that could mean tiny women with a little extra or the thin and tall types. The common denominator is often small breasts, which I go crazy for. I'm not here to judge anyone's body; in fact, I am easy to please, so if you fit that description at all, I am likely into it. Kink wise, I'm a switch; if you're a switch or a domme, I bet we'd have some overlap.

Anyway, that's enough rambling. If any of that caught your eye, shoot me a DM.