Simple and straight to the point… I don’t want just a partner, I want an equal. Equal fire, equal passion, equal caring, equal love, and equal wanting. A best goddamn friend. I'm not looking to F’ around, or have something halfassed. I’m looking for a real relationship to bloom, and not just some superficial thing. I’m the hopeless romantic type who believes that you can find your soulmate, but that soulmate probably isn’t living right next door. (Though damn would that be super beneficial to any distance problems! 😂) I'm that kind of guy that your mother told you to date, but also the one that your father warned you about... the one that you might end up falling in love with without realizing it at first. And yes, I’m definitely the real thing. 😉 All you gotta do is give me the chance to prove it.

I want someone who wants to spend time together, wants to go out and do things, or is up to try new things together. I love being outside, so someone who can appreciate and wants to do things like camping, going out on the lake, taking mini roadtrips. Someone who can be emotionally open and vulnerable, because that’s the only way a true connection can happen. Someone who we each can say “they’re mine, and they give me everything I need and want, and I want to do the same for them”. I am an adventurous person, and that adventurous spirit ranges anywhere from going out and doing or trying new things together to also being more adventurous in the bed room. (Within limits!) I want a best friend where we both love spending time with each other doing things, but also can come home and cuddle on a rainy night on the couch watching a show together. Compatible with each other is a big deal for me, because if two people aren’t compatible then it just leads to problems later on.

And I am not the type of person who just texts three word sentences or responses, I put time, effort, and energy into communicating, and I’m the kind of guy who likes it in return. (Yeah ladies… I’m the guy who actually cares about what’s between your ears instead of just what’s between your upper arms or your legs. 😉) It’s not that hard to put a little effort into communicating or texting, or the such. I love talking, and can do so for hours. (No… I don’t expect someone to be able to match my energy and intensity on that aspect) But if I have to carry the conversation the entire time… it won’t work out for very long. I am looking for my person, I am looking for that ONE person to have a REAL relationship with. Believe or don’t believe that there are actually some good guys left in the world… but I am living breathing proof that there still are. If you are on the fence about getting into a relationship, or you don’t know if you want one or are ready for one, then I’m probably not the best person for you. (No, I am not saying that I want to get into a relationship today, but I don’t want to try and get to know someone who really isn’t that interested in getting into a relationship at the moment and is more so just messing around. 🤷🏼‍♂️) I’m looking for someone who will match my energy. I’m spontaneous as fuk, I can be intense (in a good way though), I love hard, care deeply, and will probably keep you going 😍🥹☺️🤭🫣🥵🔥 with feelings, emotions, and love all the time. If all of that is too much for you… well I’m definitely going to be too much for you too then. I’m as real as they come in so many ways, and 90% of people either don’t know how to handle that, have never had it, or are scared of it. That’s fine with me, I know I’m not for everyone, but I definitely am for someone, and my God… I will pierce that one persons soul like they never knew was possible. Call it BS, call it being cocky, call it straight up not F’ing possible, call it whatever you want. I call it real, I call it caring, I call it love.

So now the most important part (I think, right?)… I don’t have a dad bod, I definitely stay in pretty good shape (I don’t have a six pack… but definitely no gut there), I’m quite easy on the eyes (you would most definitely have no problem walking around the town with me holding your hand making other girls jealous. 😉), and I have amazingly blue eyes. (You will almost guarantee comment on them.) While physical appearance isn’t the only thing to make a relationship, I do know that attraction to each other is definitely something that helps, and I have no problem swapping pictures early.