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Hey there! I'm just your average video game loving dude with a four-legged son (His name is Moon.) who wants nothing more than to share his time with someone amazing. Sorry if you're allergic to, or don't like cats. But if you do like cats, that's definitely a plus!
Also feel like I need to put it out there that I am not the greatest conversationalist and far more of an introvert. So if I seem like I'm "dry" as some people put it, it's because I may have run out of things to ask, and it is not your fault. It also doesn't mean I'm uninterested. It's been years since I've really been a part of the dating scene and I really dip my toes in to try again because I want to find that special someone who can help me fix that. Someone I can really bounce ideas off of and really get a vibe going.
So a bit about me I suppose:
- I'm 6'0", average/chubby build, short dark brown hair, and brown eyes.
- My ethnicity is Black, Native American, and Puerto Rican. Mostly Black and Native American.
- I game a lot in my spare time. I've got a huge variety when it comes to my taste in video games too. Gaming is a part of my life so I do appreciate my time to myself. But I'll never neglect anyone over it.
- My taste in music is very indiscriminate, so I'm ALWAYS down to listen to new things.
- I'm an introvert. But I'm a great listener and give pretty good advice sometimes. I'm kind of blunt though so it's not for everyone.
- I'm very into cuddling. I feel like physical touch is an awesome way to show someone how you feel about them.
- If I sound nonchalant, please don't take it to heart. I'm not good with expressing my thoughts/emotions in words. It's actually pretty hard for me to figure out how to even write this haha.
- I guess adding to the above fact, I'm not very outwardly emotional. For a lot of people, it kind of makes me hard to read and I can understand how that can be kind of frustrating. It stems from some things that have happened in my life. I can go into my detail, if you care to know, of course.
- I'm not the most well-off person in the world, but I am doing my best to live comfortably. That being said, if you live very far away it may be a while before we meet in person unless you take the first step. Just a heads up! However, if you live in Michigan that makes things 100 times easier for both of us.
What am I looking for? Nothing oddly specific. In fact, be yourself. I'm attracted to diverse personalities, and people who are both unlike me, or very like me. Sometimes being able to relate is a blessing or a curse. Depends on what we take from it, I guess. You don't gotta be a 10 in the beauty department, or even a perfect being. I, myself, am not perfect. In fact, come at me with all your imperfections, I bet you I could find something to love about you.
I have a high sex drive, and most people honestly wouldn't even know it. Am I looking for sex? Nah, not looking for it. But I do love it. I love the idea of pleasing the woman that I'm with. You realize things about each other physically that, at the end of it, you come to enjoy about them. If I'm able to physically show you how much I appreciate your existence through sex, then sure. I've got a high sex drive but, I understand not everyone's down for that. Not something I can change about myself sadly lol. I'm not someone who talks about sex like that though. If that's what you wanna talk about, you initiate. I'm all about respecting boundaries, and there's plenty more things to talk about outside of it.
I can be very adventurous with the right person. I like to go on dates and be out with the one I care about. I can also be very attentive to the feelings of my SO, and I do my best to listen. I, of course, would just like the same in my partner. Loyalty and Honesty 100%.
If you've read this far, tell me your favorite thing to do to pass the time. Or even your favorite animal.
Bonus points if you play Final Fantasy 14 and wanna hang out on it together!
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