tldr: Only open to online if you can visit New York or can magically whisk me away to your land. I'm also open to finding my forever but I'm not expecting to find them here, nor is it the point of my post.

Me: 5'10 white. Brown hair. Cheerful goofy jokester that knows when to read the room. Wants to make sure you're happy.

This may seem weird but you know the saying that you should leave things better than you found it? I know that's usually related to keeping an area free of trash but I also think it can be said for being a positive influence for people you've met. It shouldn't take much effort to be nice to someone, that at minimum should be expected. I want to be someone's positive influence. I'm not sure if we will be talking to each other forever, it would be nice but that just depends on how comfortable we are and what paths we take in the future. I'll always be down to hear from you. For me personally, no matter how long it's been as long as we last spoke on respectful terms I'm always willing to hear from you again.

So what am I willing to do? - I do want to help someone with their goals in whatever realistic way I can, whether it be for your body or mental health, personal accomplishments, or personal problems that you've been struggling with for a while. I do want someone that can ultimately be willing to return the favor, not in a drastic overwhelming amount but whatever amount they're willing to tackle. We can both pick and choose what battles we think we can help the other in. I don't want this to feel awkward for us so first before we get to that part, let's try to be friends. After we're close enough we can tackle these things at a comfortable pace.

What would I like from you? - Someone between 23-31 that lives in NYC. I'm not one to escalate things or push someones boundaries. I want to be a better boyfriend for someone in the future, depending on if there is mutual attraction I'm open to other things, although I'm also okay with us being elevated and platonic super accountability friends. Personally I'm too afraid to believe in myself being perfect enough for someone at the moment. If you end up feeling possessive and want me exclusively to yourself for a period then please let me know if that would interest you. Please be understanding that I struggle with social anxiety and want to connect with you as naturally as I can so it may take me a bit of time to open up right away. Please tell me about yourself as much as you like, I love yappers. I would love to meet someone that would like to plan get togethers, I don't go out much but would love to tag along. Hopefully you enjoy watching some shows/movies together or like to game because that's how I comfortably bond with someone but I'm also open to more things obviously.

Another side note: A big motivator for writing this was obviously a bit of loneliness, I've been thinking about how close New Years is, and don't want to spend this year alone. I do spend it with my family most years but want to spend it with someone new if possible. To clarify, despite what may be implied, I do want to ideally be with someone forever, I'm just not expecting it on here.