Hi! 🤭

I'm looking for a genuine, soft, and sweet boy to befriend and explore a unique dynamic with. Ideally, I’d like to connect with someone who’s proactive, caring, and intelligent—someone who’s not lazy in relationships, expecting to be dragged along for the ride. In my experience, many submissive guys tend to take without giving, wanting to be the center of attention, almost as if they’re entitled to constant care and service. I want someone sensitive who genuinely cares for me and wants to serve me out of devotion, not expectation.

Maybe it’s because I’m a switch, but I envision a relationship dynamic that’s a bit like a knight and his princess. I’d love for my partner to see me as “above him,” treating me with respect and loyalty, yet feeling essential to my life—a man who’s selflessly useful, appreciated, and needed.

This can start out platonic, and after getting to know each other, we can decide if we want to take it in another direction! Lately, I’ve been trying to learn chess, so let’s say at first, I’m just looking for a chess partner or someone to discuss shows and movies with.

For practical reasons, I prefer people living in Europe or nearby; dealing with drastic time zone differences can be tough, and I’ve learned it just doesn’t work for me.

A few quick notes: I’m not sending nudes or lewds, but I can verify I’m a girl through audios, and once I trust you, I’ll show my face! So, don’t bother asking for that in the first week.

Fair warning: I’m not the typical “domme” type in terms of looks. I’m 154 cm and not into the whole black latex/leather theme. I like the idea of being smaller than the person I take control (and care, of course) of. There’s something about that dichotomy I just love haha.

It’s worth mentioning because a lot of guys seem to want someone taller and bigger who can “manhandle” them, but that’s not what I’m after. I’d rather have you obey me because you want to please me—not because you need to be forced.

I’d prefer someone tall, but I’m not too picky about body type or weight. I like big guys because I’m really into the whole gentle giant/teddy bear vibe .... I like the idea of someone being able to physically overpower me but still feeling safe enough with me to let me have my way with them. For me, that's the most trusting gesture. You won’t have to let me dominate and impose my will on yours; you’d genuinely want me to have your mind and body.

Voice and video calls are very important for me, so if that would be an issue, please let me know upfront. They’re essential for me to feel close to someone.

Lastly, I’m not into feminization or sissification of any kind. I’m very fond of traditional masculine qualities, and I don’t mind traditional gender roles, except in private, where we create our own rules 😉.

Please introduce yourself if you feel like we'd be a good match!