Hi there! I'm I got out of an extremely bad and traumatic long term relationship...as well as a short term relationship where I wasn't valued the way I deserve. I refuse to go through dating apps at any cost so I'm turning to here for a guy I can just vibe with who likes me for who I am.

About me:

— I'm kind of a huge nerd, especially about Video games. I have a Switch but I've owned every Nintendo console since I was born, pretty much (pretty much the SNES era)!

—Aside from gaming I like to read and write and try new foods. I also like history and going to museums. I also like board games and like learning new card games and listening to music.

— I'm one of those creative, compassionate types. I'm infp and very shy but that doesn't mean I'm a pushover.

—I'm white, 5"5, with blue eyes and brown-red hair.

— I have an advanced degree from a well known university

— I'm considerd plus size and curvy but I am working on getting fit once again. I know I'm considered pretty.

Looking for a man who is:

— Honest, kind, patient, good with kids (I'd strongly prefer child free)

— Between the ages of 24-37

— Drug free (sorry stoners this includes you), no smoking, drinking socially only!

—Monogamy is a must as well.

— Funny with a good sense of humor. Show me memes and silly videos!

— Career minded

— Lives in NYC

— Isn't afraid to trying new things and enjoying life.

— I also seem to like the lanky type too. I like men who are above 5"10 in height.

— I prefer blonde men above all else.

I'm mostly looking for someone who makes me feel safe and warm. Someone who can make me laugh and feel at ease, who isn't afraid to be honest and have fun. Sweet, nerdy guys are ideal for me.

Disclaimer: While I can see a relationship turning NSFW with the right amount of chemistry and vibes, we can go NSFW with time when both parties are comfortable.

If you want to chat, drop a DM with your mbti and your hair color so that I know you read this post.