I'm after something lighthearted/chill with someone I vibe.. I have so much written in my other posts, under my profile. I'm not looking for anything except regular ongoing fun IRL

Us: not looking to go out and do stuff, wanting to stay in to enjoy eachother, friendly-lovers' vibes, kept private indoors, ie. hang n' bang drinks/weed/banter/music chill good stuff spending few spirited hours indulging on eachother in bed

You: local to metro Vancouver cities & unattached/single, from early-20's to late-40's, clean/DDF, of any background wanting something consistent, fun, often, ideally exclusive

Me: 6', Brown/SouthAsian, average/dadbod, well groomed, shaved head with a beard, tattooed, attractive & clean/DDF, wide ranging kinks and higher sex drive seeking a matchup

Introduce yourself with more than a 'Hey' or some generic one liner, I never respond unless I'm genuinely intrigued by a message TBH; let's swap SFW pic and meet socially first see if there's that real world chemistry to pursue it further

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Hoping to find a fun match on here. I'm mostly Daddy-Dom and tend to click better with Submissive-in-bed women but I'm not looking for passive women nor any D/s out of play

I'm not really looking to jump into random hookup off this but I'm not here for a heavy friendship or pseudo-dating.. I prefer a consistent and lasting fun sitch that's not messy.. currently not seeking anything beyond lot of kinky fun sex  with someone I enjoy overall in personality and in dynamic because even when casual not just any willing body will do

I'm single, busy, not swiping Apps, only posted on Reddit, I live alone and do prefer to host; prefer nights/weekends to meetup. I just want one simple ongoing situation, that's all

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To simplify things, I'll clarify what's not really for me, IYKYK

Hard limits: all the unhygienic ones -blood, scat, urine, etc., included eating ass which is off putting giving or receiving; super regressive age, especially very 'little' Dd/lg, cg/l; abdl; extreme cnc, as in way too real.. None of these are for me.. for me at best, 'middle' is ok and 'cnc' if derived from bratty; I've never found regressed ageplay & non-consent play hot;

Turn-offs: calling rough sex 'cnc' because it's not; using the term 'breeding' and for thinking bare sex cumming inside a woman on birth control is a 'kink' because that is just sex.. and to be honest is preferred when/if only playing together, as I'd rather cum in than cum on since* I cum multi-times.. so in mouth/pussy, not on face/back/body mess cleanup; thinking D/s is all about physical restraints given it's also a energy & mentality; feigning kinks because faking isn't fun;

Soft limits: not the biggest fan of being called Daddy in sex but it's ok sometimes, yet the word isn't the kink, energy for connection is what matters; over the top dirty talk since it's a bit theatrical, not as real; some cnc and cg/l or dd/lg etc, only 'middle', semi 'cnc' have different energies for play so non-issue, they both are ancillary to my kinks, not sought; some bratty stuff can get annoying, less is more maybe idk as with sadist play, full masochistics all-in is not my thing.. the things in soft limits are nuances in play for me so open

Aside from core of D/s itself, an individual dynamic varies