Hey everyone, I'm looking for a long term serious romantic relationship. I have a lot of love to give and I want to find the right person to give it to.

A quick rundown of my appearance, I'll send pictures if you message me. I'm white, 5'8", 130lbs, short brown hair. My driver's license says I have hazel eyes, but sometimes I think they're more green. I like to wear lots of dark colors and alternative clothing. Lots of band shirts. I like to paint my nails sometimes too, usually black.

I work full-time as a custodian. I really enjoy the work and the pay isn't bad either. I like having a job that makes the world a little better. I do work the night shift. I know that can be a deal breaker for some so I'm mentioning it now. I'd like to find someone who also works nights or doesn't mind that I work nights. If I can get off the shift I would, but it's not possible right now.

When I'm not working I like to go out and dance at raves. I find it therapeutic to zone out and feel the music. Dance like no one is watching. Other times I like to go out for walks around the city and hang out at a park. Sometimes I'll go see a movie at the theater. There's a theater near me that shows a lot of older movies and independent films. I'm not really into a lot of the mainstream stuff like the MCU. I like more artful films. I love Tarantino, Coppola, and Kubrick. I do like a lot of horror both old and more recent releases. At home I enjoy, video games, watching documentaries, and the occasional Lego set. The game I play the most is Dead by Daylight followed by Cities Skylines. I don't watch a lot of TV shows, but I like Ken Burns and other stuff from PBS. That or I'll watch YouTube. I also have a cat at home. She's a very sweet calico kitty. She's FIV and FelV positive, but you wouldn't know it from looking at her. She's so playful and full of energy. I spend a lot time having fun with her and spoiling her. I have a couple friends I hang out with. Usually just to chill and talk about life. I like to travel sometimes too. Especially if I can do it by train. Riding a train is so exciting for me. I would love to go on an Amtrak sleeper train someday and see the west.

Another thing about me is I love music and concerts. I listen to a lot of metal and with some folksy stuff too. I can enjoy most genres though. Some of my favorite artists are Slipknot, Marilyn Manson, Linkin Park, Korn, Rob Zombie, Alice Cooper, Evanescence, 3Teeth, Chevelle, Bruce Springsteen, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Lord Huron and lately I've been getting more into Depeche Mode. I try to go to as many concerts as I can and I don't mind seeing an artist multiple times. I'm very excited to see Linkin Park next year since they came back with a new singer. I would love to go to concerts together with someone. I either go alone or with a friend, but I never went with a significant other.

Some more personal things about me and what I'm looking for in a partner. To start out I'm vegan and don't plan on changing that. It would be awesome to find a fellow vegan, but I won't judge you if you aren't vegan. I don't smoke and rarely drink. I can count on one hand the amount of times I drink a year. I have asthma so I can't be with a smoker. I don't use any other substances since I get random drug tests at work. I'm a shy and introverted person. I usually like to keep to myself unless spoken to. That's not to say I dislike talking with people. If I feel comfortable with them I could talk for hours. I'm not too good on social cues so I appreciate it when people are very straightforward and direct about what they want, need, or how they're feeling. I'm not religious even though I said I'm looking for a soulmate lol. I would say I lean agnostic. I would like to find someone who's either the same, atheist, or not overly religious. Spiritual is ok too. Politically I'm progressive and I don't think I would get along with someone who's conservative. I don't talk about politics all the time, but I need to be with someone who shares my core values. As for having kids, that's not for me. I want to live the DINK life. I have a thing for women who take a more dominant role in the relationship. I love a confident and assertive woman who has no problem saying what's on her mind. A meme I like is I need someone who lets the waiter know they forgot my mashed potatoes. That's the type of relationship I thrive in. I'm looking for someone who's my either my age or a few years younger/older. I love being with women who are bigger than me. I believe opposites attract has some truth to it. A skinny guy like me loves cuddling someone who has some extra cushion.

Let me know if you're interested. And I wish everyone good luck out there.