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I'm after something lighthearted/chill with someone I vibe.. I have so much written in my other posts, under my profile;
Us: not looking to go out and do stuff, wanting to stay in to enjoy eachother, friendly-lovers' vibes, just private indoors, ie. hang n' bang drinks/weed/banter/music chill good stuff
You: local to metro Vancouver cities & unattached/single, from early-20's to late-40's, clean/DDF, of any background
Me: 6', Brown/SouthAsian, average/dadbod, well groomed, shaved head, tattooed, attractive, unattached & clean/DDF, wide ranging kinks and a high sex drive seeking a matchup
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this is just a more general what I'm about and enjoy in bed; I enjoy going from one mood to other switching things up, I love the contrasts, the ranges and the in-betweens of play..
'- equally like long makeout sessions fully clothed as I do stripping down going in 69 giving while receiving oral
'- equally like tit-sucking-suckling-breastplay as I do laying back to an enthusiastic lengthy balls-included-sloppier-bj
'- equally enjoy stripping her down piece by piece enjoying levels of undress as I do wrapping in blanket at end
'- equally enjoy getting sensual oily massage with teasing as I do giving hard oiled massage fingering her down
'- equally like wrapping a hand on throat spitting in mouth pushing down as I do holding tenderly kissing cheek
'- equally like pushing into arched up ass spanking doggy as I do pulling in and thrusting up into rhythmic cowgirl
'- equally like standing face fucking forward facing doggy as I do sitting for reverse cowgirl caressing her back
'- equally enjoy licking her neck as she grinds backing on me as I do pushing into window thrusting biting her back
'- equally like cuddling kissing in a passionate embrace as I do choking holding down gripping feeling her body
'- equally enjoy cumming few times over entire evening as I do making her cum few times even if I cum just once
'- equally love the more slowed passion filled lovers vibe as I do the in heat lustful rough tempo & in-between it all
I enjoy varied spirited and energetic play on a kinkier wave length, It's far better with changing positions, interplays of energy, having variances in matches ie. personality, styles..
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I'm single, busy, not swiping apps, only posted on Reddit, live alone and I prefer to host, prefer nights/weekends to meetup. Just wanting one fun ongoing situation, that's it.
I don't respond to empty profiles messaging Hi or asking random questions. Introduce yourself in the 1st message
I'm not really looking to jump into random hookup off this but I'm not here for a heavy friendship or pseudo dating.. I prefer a consistent and lasting fun setup that's not messy
Hoping to find a fun match on here, something often and exclusive is the goal to make it better fun and keep it safe.
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I have full bdsm ad up, so I'll clarify whats not for me, iykyk
Hard limits: all the unhygienic ones -blood, scat, urine, etc., included eating ass which is off putting giving or receiving; super regressive age, especially very 'little' Dd/lg, cg/l; abdl; extreme cnc, as in way too real.. None of these are for me.. for me at best, 'middle' is ok and 'cnc' if derived from bratty; I've never found regressed ageplay & non-consent play hot;
Turn-offs: calling rough sex 'cnc' because it's not; using the term 'breeding' and for thinking bare sex cumming inside a woman on birth control is a 'kink' because that is just sex.. and to be honest is preferred when/if only playing together, as I'd rather cum in than cum on since* I cum multi-times.. so in mouth/pussy, not on face/back/body mess cleanup; thinking D/s is all about physical restraints given it's also a energy & mentality; feigning kinks because faking isn't fun;
Soft limits: not the biggest fan of being called Daddy in sex but, it's ok sometimes yet the word isn't the kink, energy for connection is what matters; over the top dirty talk since it's a bit theatrical, not as real; some cnc and cg/l or dd/lg etc, only 'middle', semi 'cnc' have different energies for play so non-issue, they both are ancillary to my kinks, not sought; some bratty stuff can get annoying, less is more maybe idk as with sadist play, full masochistics all in is not my thing.. the things in soft limits are nuances in play for me, all open
Kinkwise, my pinned post has more info but dynamics vary
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