Hi there!

I’m a 35-year-old man located in the San Jose Bay Area, seeking a woman younger than me (i'm not too picky about this, anywhere from 23-32) with a similar background who’s tired of all the games and ready to explore a meaningful, committed relationship with open communication. I want to get to know each other early on while knowing that we are intentionally seeing how our compatibility is like. Over the next few months, we can build something real as we grow closer. I want us to be able to truly call each other our best friends as we go through our future lives together.

A bit about me: I’m passionate about kendo and practice regularly, 4-5x/week. I also enjoy playing video games or watching shows with friends over discord as a fun way to stay connected as time has pulled us more physically apart from each other.

I work a stable job in the healthcare industry. While I make a respectable income for my field, I’m looking for a partner who can also pull her own weight financially. You don't need to be making big bucks, but you should have a stable source of income and at least some desire and ambition to improve yourself. Due to family history, I am not a big fan of entrepreneurship, and value stability instead. I value equality and mutual support in a relationship.

I value all aspects of our connection, including chemistry and emotional connection; I also think it’s important that physical compatibility is part of that. I have high drive, so I’m looking for someone who’s comfortable with exclusive intimacy within the first few meetups. We can take things at a pace that works for both of us as trust develops, but I do strongly think it's essential as part of a relationship foundation. It may sound contradictory, but I need to repeat that I am not looking for a casual hookup for a fwb; I only want intimacy with someone who I really want to commit with.

About me:

• 35, Asian, based in the Bay Area

• Passionate about my kendo journey, and values maintaining friendships

• Financially stable, looking for someone who can hold her own

• Grounded, easygoing, communicative, and serious about finding the right person

• Open-minded and respectful of boundaries, but also value emotional and physical connection

• Seeking a meaningful connection with someone who’s ready for commitment

You:

• Female, 23-32, preferably ABC, or at least someone willing to embrace Asian culture. I will do the same for you and yours. Local or willing to meet in the Bay Area

• Interested in commitment and a genuine connection

• Open to getting to know each other with intention while being comfortable with exclusive physical intimacy earlier on

• Financially independent and responsible, values family

• Willing to verify early (video chat or meet in person) so we both know we’re on the same page about how we expect things will go

Let’s talk, connect, and see if we can build something great together!

I'm willing to share pictures if you send yours first!