I'm going to get right to the point: you are good enough and you are awesome enough to reply. I want to hear from you if anything I've said connects with you or it even sounds interesting. Reading this isn't the time for you to wonder "what if I replied". No. It's time for you to see what magic happens. Even a simple "hi" might change everything - let me take the lead and show you what life can truly be about :)

How are you tonight? Are you feeling the same as me - that life is kind of meh these days? Are you looking for that exciting relationship and adventure you've been dreaming about? You know the one I'm talking about. Are you wondering about how much more alive you'd feel with the right partner?

The one where that man comes into your life who you feeling amazing around, even as you have butterflies in your stomach. Where you're able to let go and just be in a meaningful way. I'm looking forward to getting to know you in every way. You see, friendship is where a real relationship starts :)

I'm a man who enjoys humor and wants to find a woman who also enjoys laughter and life. So if you reply I'm going to classify you as a freaking awesome woman who enjoys banter and laughter and is kick ass in a few ways!

I'm looking for a woman to have an amazing in person relationship with. Filled with laughter, love, and everything in between. I'm very worthy of earning your trust, and would like to earn a chance. Also, you need to understand that I know what I want and will clearly articulate my needs to you.

Now, imagine you have the type of friend I'm talking about, who see's you as that amazing person you are. Someone who appreciates you for you, and wants to be with the real you. I bet that person can make you feel incredibly safe and relaxed and excited to be around them.

How awesome would life be if that person helped you embrace what you really wanted in life side by side, while you do the same for them? Do you want that type of intimate relationship where you're comfortable being supported, encouraged, and coached and embracing a growth mindset?

I can get more in-depth with real world facts about me and as much detail as you want. You need to know I'm open to living anywhere and will move for the right partner. I'm also educated, have a great job, and have some common and uncommon hobbies. Let's really connect and dig deep to see if the chemistry is there! The key fact you need to know is I'm willing to put the time, money, and a lot of effort into creating the most amazing relationship ever. Are you?

Let's play a game, here's some cities I'm thinking of, and I will say something I want to do in each one. I'm thinking quick so they're a bit basic. Do you like travel? How would it feel to go to all these places with your man :)

New York City (NYC) - a musical. Los Angeles - a concert. Portland - food truck. Dallas - a rodeo. Boston - a library. Chicago - hot dog haha. Denver - snowball fight. Las Vegas - pool party. San Diego - beach. San Francisco - fancy restaurant. Miami - dancing. Houston - Space Center. San Antonio - Philadelphia - cheese-steak. Toronto - CN Tower. Vancouver - Stanley Park.

I don't like liars, millionaires (billionaires ok), bad music, being cheap, unreliability, infrequent communication, inability to commit, low eq, replies from women in relationships, and probably some other less important things.

I enjoy travel, new restaurants, fiscal responsibility, laughter, movies, using my mind, and having special moments together :)

Now, if you've read this far, you should respond and let me know why this connects with you.