Hi I am Matthew usually go by Matt happy to exchange pics in dms. Some things about me I'm 5 10 tattooed (full sleeve) long dark brown hair with some grey now haha and dark brown eyes I weigh 235 pounds and working on it. I am looking to talk to new people to chat with and potentially date or form a connection and see where it goes well and very open minded so the only thing I am not looking for is someone who wants kids with me ( if you already have kids that's fine ) as I just don't desire that. I am open to any kind of poly dynamic. I currently I have 1 partner in Canada Quebec LDR over 3 years which I plan to close the distance and become nesting partners but atm no timeline for it due to many reasons right now. I am looking to date solo but I am open to other possibilities if it goes there.

Currently looking for someone who that has some overlapping interests like gaming (I'm play pc and love a lot of genres but specially rpgs), going to the movies (special soft spot for scifi/fantasy/stop motion/puppetry) watching anime (most genres but my fav is iseika/fantasy/scifi) / shows going to concerts (love metal concerts they make me so happy for ages after going) exploring new places/nature/history/art/technology and a smattering of other stuff. Its no fun if we have nothing in common to talk about at all haha. I am great at listening to others too I really enjoy learning more about people I have a curious mind. I am comfy with voice and video chat and do like them when the trust and comfort level for you is there. I also like going on walks and museums and other interesting things like old buildings with a lot of history and other things like that I am very curious by nature so expect me to ask questions often haha. And I am more then happy to share the history of Ireland and our political history as that seems to be quite common with people i talk with online you guys love Ireland for some reason haha.

Personality wise I am honest, open, caring, empathetic and nerdy. I can be a bit shy/distant until I know more about someone and their personal boundaries/comfort level with me. I treat others how I expect to be treated with that is understanding/honesty/open mind/dignity/kindness and the ability to be able to disagree and not take disagreements personally. I am very easy to excite about stuff I'm passionate about and love to share that with the people I'm close too. I respect all kinds of people and walks of life I might not agree with but as long as it isn't causing harm to others it matters not to me. I hope that people can match my energy and interest to chatting and responding. My top love language is quality time so there needs to be the ability to organize time together to keep it going long term like voice or video chats and date nights etc and being able to do so reliably and consistently how ever often it feels and works out good for.

About more intimacy compatibility I love to cuddle and be playful through the day and really enjoy physical contact once I am comfy with someone. My love language is quality time together and touch. I am very open minded and only a few things for me are a hard no. I am a Dom leaning switch but enjoy both situations still learning and exploring. I am always up for trying new things I have never even come across or thought about before. There is quite a lot of both vanilla and BDSM things I haven't tried and am very interested in it feels like my list just keeps growing haha. I am very open about talking about sexual and kinky things as I am in the kink event scene in Dublin.

Thanks for reading and feel free to ask me any questions.