Me: https://imgur.com/a/xKYHR3q

(Last pic is Mom and I ziplining! I have anxiety around doing things outside of my comfort zone, so I usually need some encouragement, but I’m always glad when I do! However, not doing things like this is fine with me as well, hahaha.)

Hiya, I’m Michael, I hope you’re doing well on this lovely day, and I’m sure I’ll be very pleased to meet you! If the title of this post intrigued you, then we probably already have a lot in common already! ☺️

🌶 Neurospicy! (mild ADHD, mild social anxiety)

💟 I don’t have a type, I like most everyone.

👻 I’ve never ghosted anyone in my life once we start talking, so I’m not about to start now, haha.

👁️‍🗨️ Open to exploring non-monogamous things with open communication of our needs and desires

I’m a dual citizen 🇺🇸🇨🇦 currently in WNY near Buffalo, spiritual (not religious), quiet geek, I enjoy the simple life, and I’m not spontaneous in most things…hey, at least you know I’m honest 🤷‍♂️🥲 and INFJ-A, ♉️♌️♎️

(And if you’re a skeptic of personality types, that would be such a fun conversation to have, hehe. Nothing is 100%, but if you look up or know what these signs/personalities are known for, I do largely fit in to the category, so quizzing me about it could be quite fun!)

If you want to get to know a bit about me

I’m a go-with-the-flow- easy-going-type, open-minded towards most things and kinks (test me), leftist, pan-romantic, but my allo attraction is more femme-leaning.

I enjoy listening to music (sometimes for an hour on repeat 😆), a little gaming, cooking with others, reading, outdoors, mild hiking, & meditation/affirmations, but mostly I just watch TV. 😜

Love brainstorming and talking about the meaning of life, death, aliens, paradoxes, doomsday scenarios, far away galaxies, our flaws, our childhood, our insecurities, etc.

I blend in pretty well as “normal,” on the surface, but I’m generally pretty stoic in real life, as sometimes I can’t think of the right words I want to say and other times I fumble over them, lol. It gets better when I’m comfortable around you. But I obviously don’t have that problem through text. 🙃

I’m very affectionate, love giving and receiving praise, and have a high libido (every day, or multiple times a day is the ideal).

I love cuddling and being cuddled. Male version of this 🤭: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTFah9SpA/

I’m not needy when it comes to chatting, but I do value daily communication to let someone know you’re on their mind, even if it’s just some small talk or to check in if they’re busy. Voice notes are fine, calls I don’t prefer, but I can make room for them so metimes. I definitely can’t be on a call all day or for several hours.

➡️ Known to take long showers, pondering life 😗

While I’m very optimistic, positive, and content with life right now (besides wanting a partner at some point, hence this post 😝), supporting others in their mental health journeys has been a big theme in my life.

If you have a mental health issue, even a less common one, feel free to be completely open with me about it, I’d always understand—you can ask my friends (who are all neurodivergent in some way). 😌

I love listening to thoughts and feelings without judgment, and taking on that caring role when needed.

What I value most in a partner

As I said, I’m a very open and open-minded person and tend to gravitate to others who are the same way—why are they so hard to find, though?? 😆

Apparently that means different things to different people, so by this I mean:

• I’m not guarded, I don’t mind talking about myself or my beliefs, I’m very introspective,

  • If asked, I like being open about my reasons for doing things, because I like being analytical and having reasons for the things I do

• I don’t believe in “gate-keeping” knowledge,

• I’m open to new things and ideas I haven’t been exposed to yet,

• I don’t get offended unless you intend to offend me,

• I do my best not to jump to conclusions about what you’re trying to say, and ask questions if I need clarification,

• I’m not “particular” about how you write, what words or emojis you use, what “vibe” you give off (whatever that means), or what you sound or behave like,

• Even if I have my favorites, I’m not picky in my taste of food, music, media, kinks; I usually always see what others find appealing about something and have wide interests, myself,

• I often don’t get why people bicker and I believe most disagreements can be resolved in a calm manner with empathy and by talking

• I would never cite, simply, “a lack of chemistry,” as a reason for why we’re incompatible 😅 there are always specifics involved!

• I’m open to being friends with non-toxic ex’s, or if we’re incompatible in some way

These things are quite normal to me, but obviously isn’t to everyone (or in my experience, most people), but after countless chats, I’ve realized this (and lots of affection) is what I also value the most in a partner. 🥹

If you’re the same way, and often feel different for being like this, then please don’t hesitate to reach out!

Potential dealbreaker out of the way:

I don’t want my own kids, because when you have children, the children come first, and I have too much romantic love to give, I definitely want my partner to always come first in my life.

If we’re compatible in every other way, I wouldn’t mind if you already have one or more kids, and I know your kid(s) will always come first, but I don’t have any experience with kids, and I’ve never been around them, so as long as you’re okay with that and patient with me, it’s fine. 🙂

Tidbits:

Favorite Quote:

"It is better to be thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.” ~ Maurice Switzer

2 Truths, 1 Lie:

I claim to know the meaning of life, my favorite movie is Godzilla 2000, I eat once a day 😉

The worst thing I’ve done:

Switch a broken toaster with a new one and sent the old one back to Amazon instead of going through the warranty process. 😅

To conclude, if this post is still up it means I’m still looking, and I’ve never ghosted anyone in my life once we start talking, so I’m not about to start now, haha.

Everyone 18 and older, even 50s, 60s, is welcome to message, all body types, identities, orientations, color, and no matter your situation, or current dynamic.

Pics are nice, but I don’t mind waiting if you’re shy, either.

If all of this that sounds good to you, then I’m sure we’ll get along well. 😊 I would love to hear more about you, your passions, and your struggles!

Message me, or send a chat request.

Eager to hear from ya!

Tell me where you are in life and something about yourself that people often get wrong, if you’d like.

Cheers,

Michael