TL:DR: Handsome, deep-voiced pop culture fan seeks adventure buddy/friend with benefits/mutually validating connection. If you're in the PNW that's great, but also I travel a bit for work. An online-meetcute is also super cool, but I really would like to manifest some in-person adventures.

More about me: I'm a 33 year old college professor who is a bleeding-heart leftist but also kind as fuck. I don't really mean that to imply that politics are deeply important to the center of whatever "relationships" might come from this Reddit post, but if you're like super conservative I hope it's in a submissive way, and not in a weird raceplay way (I'm half Mexican). Also, re: submission, that kind of thing should probably be separate from politics, but I lean towards being a soft dom, am a big fan of aftercare and enthusiastic consent, as well as praise, and just building someone up. I'm not your Daddy. If calling me that in the heat of the moment (and we get to that heat of the moment) turns you on, by all means, be vocal for me, but I am not going to set a schedule for you, punish you, or treat you like a kid. BDSM is not really a lifestyle thing for me. In all honesty I could have vanilla-adjacent sex with copious amounts of foreplay the rest of my life.

I really really love pop culture. I watch a lot of TV and movies (finishing up Agatha All Along, and The Penguin, and weirdly excited for Venom. Very ready to go to war with Paul Mescal after Gladiator 2 in November, I am sure). I also play a lot of video games (I just started Metaphor Refantazio, and it's just incredible), I have all three major consoles and a gaming PC, so if gaming is your love language, I think we could have a lot of bonding over co-op or PVP experiences. We could truly test our relationship with Mario Party. I really need to read more...which is ironic because I consider myself a bit of a writer.

Beyond that, I really enjoy hitting the gym (https://imgur.com/a/BR5U7oe), eating out at pretty much any restaurant, and just exploring cool places. It'd be really neat to find someone in Portland or Seattle specifically, because I need more reasons to visit those cities.

I'd love to see a pic of you if you reach out, but beyond that, in classic annoying-professor fashion, if you send me a chat or message, tell me your favorite horror film or Taylor Swift album? Talk to you soon!