I’ve done the healing, now let’s put this healing to the test on the path of dating with intention. Alright, saddle up, here goes!!! :)

Before I go any further in this, I am very big on honesty and communication, just be straightforward with your intentions and we will be fine, regardless of what they are.

About me: 35, Asian, living in Los Angeles. Told I’m attractive/cute, but beauty is subjective. I enjoy traveling, photography, music, being outside and exploring events or places, such as farmers markets, local events, festivals, just being out really. Though I like doing activities outside, I do also cherish staying in and hanging out at home to recharge my social battery. For health, I enjoy strength training, going on walks, cycling. I’ve managed to lose some pounds, so I am considered curvy/chubby. I come with witty banter, so if you enjoy laughing, that should come with ease. I believe that self growth and self awareness are important things to prioritize that will benefit all relationship aspects in one’s life, so if you feel the same, I’m sure we’ll get along.

I value integrity and building a safe space for one another that allows for vulnerability and openness. Would like to find a partner that also puts high value in trust, honesty, communication. I want to have a partner who is also my best friend. Someone I can go through life with, which includes the highs and the lows! Being supportive with one another. I process things in a very practical and open way, so there’s benefits to that when support is needed. Hoping I can find the same in my partner where we are able to share all things with one another, even when it may be timid to share or may be hurtful to hear. I find that as long as it’s done with respect and integrity, it makes it easier. Ya know, building each other up to be better and all that jazz.

Let's go to roadside attractions, check out cool bars and restaurants, try new cuisines, concerts, walk through various museums about anything, or even have a playful competitiveness against each other in games or the likes. I'd love someone to laugh with, someone to cheer with when we accomplish something, someone to share the good and bad news with, someone who loves those content quiet moments of life, even relishing in each other’s company by doing nothing. Those are the moments I cherish and appreciate. Being still with your person. At last, I’m just being hopeful! I’ve read some successes, and figured why not take a stab at this? I’m pragmatic, but hopefully I can meet someone to build something special and serious with!

EDIT: If any of that resonates with you, feel free to send a chat! Thoughtful openers with photos of yourself will help with a response. I’ve been declining messages without a photo, because I can’t seem to get myself to invest time chatting with someone whom I may not be attracted to. Please include your age (29 only) and where in Los Angeles you are located at, I may be open to other areas if there’s enough attraction and connection. Happy to send one back and continue if there’s mutual attraction!