I’m looking for a male best friend to laugh, confide, act a fool, and occasionally flirt with! To give us both the best chance at success, I’d prefer if you have a background similar to mine.

Me:

• 40F
• 5’7”, pretty, more curvy than skinny, and generally happy with my body. I try to dress well and smell good. 💁‍♀️
• Single — divorced a million years ago, no kids
• Lived in cities all my life and probably romanticize the idea of moving some place where I can grow my own food a little too much (in reality, I hate getting dirt under my fingernails)
• Have a job I like with a lot of freedom for creativity 
• Attended university and had a good experience there 
• Interested in art galleries and live music, books and records, culture and food, science and facts, feminism and equal rights
• Bonus perks: I’m excellent at maintaining long distance friendships. I’m great at making playlists, drawing silly pictures, and bestowing upon you the most absurd nicknames you’ll ever have. I’ll never forget your birthday. 

You:

• 35-45M
• Handsome, over 6’ tall 👀
• Single/divorced — so we can commiserate about the state of modern courtship (if you have kids, that’s awesome, as long as you’re not a deadbeat dad)
• A city person and you’re as ambivalent about it as I am
• In a good place with your career so we can talk shop a bit and give each other career advice 
• University-educated 
• A feminist
• Worldy and celebrates cultural differences
• Have interests/hobbies you enjoy sharing and talking about
• Not shy about hopping on a call so we can banter with our actual mouths 

I hope I’m not coming off as full of myself or fussy. I’m just tired of wading through hundreds of messages, and I’m sure you’re tired of having your time wasted too! 

If any of this resonates with you, and if you ✅ checked everything ✅ on the list, please start us off by sending me your ASL and pitch. Your photo gets mine. 🤩