Hey there, nice to meet you! 😄

I'm 5'0"/153 cm (a shorty with a lotta personality, in the land of giants!), ~53 kg, green-grey eyes, and usually have my hair red or brunette. I'm originally American, and living permanently now in the Netherlands in Amsterdam. I prefer people living permanently close in Europe (preferably NL or Germany), so tell me your age and where you live (if you don't live here, tell me how you'd intend to meet me). Pictures are available after some connective conversation, no nudes. Sending a picture of yourself helps a lot - you can do so if I accept your message request!

I'm open to someone who loves to make a girl they care about feel good, including with oral (I'm also a hair tugger, gently). I am poly, and very sex positive, but do not want sex to be our first topic. If it does become a thing, let me know if you can host. Just be you ^.^

Some of my interests include:

• Drinks (though I'm no expert I love to mix some as well, alcoholic or otherwise)
• Fooood! Tell me your favorites, or even show me how to make them! ^_^
• Reading (though sometimes it's off and on, I do love it so) and the occasional musing about art (do you like theater plays/opera/classical shows?)
• Video games! Destiny 2 (mainly raids and dungeons now), Baldur's Gate 3 is a gem, Diablo IV is fun to play set to other languages because the voice acting is so good, Path of Exile is such a thorough action RPG, Hogwarts Legacy was nice (tell me if you had a crush on Hermione from HP at some point), Life Is Strange and other narrative games, Sun Haven is one of my relaxation stations, Genshin, The Sims, The Last of Us, Silent Hill 2, Horizon Zero Dawn/Forbidden West, lots of other games in the past; love RPGs especially. Mainly a PC gamer! And my Steam library makes me happy 😄
• Watching shows! BoJack Horseman and Black Mirror are some of my absolute favorites, along with occasionally a few political ones like Last Week Tonight with John Oliver (what genres do you like?)
• Adventures like roadtrips and traveling (if you have a car or can host it's a plus!), and going to saunas or thermal baths is a love of mine 🚿

I'm passionate, compassionate, witty, feisty, kind, and sprightly. I know who I am and what I want, yet also open to adapt. In most respects I'm quite independent in personality, but I also very much appreciate romance and receiving affection. Money to me enables experiencing new things and avoiding problems instead of trying endlessly to find soulful happiness with by itself. Is it the same for you?

I mesh best with those who can experience the world from the perspective of an appreciative artist. I'm generally a pretty open and accepting person, but if you like karnemelk we may need to have a very stern talk. 😶

Hope to hear from you if you're a guy with a warm heart, a kind personality, and a healthy drive. Also, very open to people who prefer being the big spoon; I'm smoll. I enjoy talking to laidback, thoughtful people. And honestly, I'm mainly looking for a guy to hold me and play games and have deep conversations with. Someone that makes sitting together on a couch with good food and drinks and watching a show feel like the most wonderful evening in the world. Who wants to tickle her brain before he gets to tickle her elsewhere. Who views sex as great, but knows in his heart and mind that one night stands and sex-based flings will not satisfy his body, soul, and brain like a deep connection would.

As may be obvious, I am clearly not the type of girl for a ONS, even though I do respect that some people want that. Happy to meet people willing to be vulnerable over time. I value cognitive and emotional intelligence, empathy, and vulnerability. 😊 (preferably NL or Germany)