I’ll be upfront. I don’t have a strong preference, but if I had to choose, I’d lean towards South or East Asian. I know this will be a long search, but I believe someone out there feels the same way I do. I’m looking for friends, friends with benefits, or both, leading to a possible relationship. Though I’ve never had friends IRL or been in a relationship, I’m fully monogamous and not interested in polyamory. I don’t live alone or drive, but I can work around both, so they won’t be an issue and I also I have my own fund. I'm hoping to change my situation soon. I’m in college studying for a technology degree. I’m also on a weight loss journey and have lost a lot, though I’m not yet at my ideal body type. Loose skin will be gone soon. I’m very anti social and introverted, so it takes time for me to warm up to people, but I do get comfortable eventually. I’m not fully established in life, so if that’s an issue, this post isn’t for you.

About me: I’m American, mixed with Jamaican and British, and some say I’m handsome. I’m 5’9”, 185 pounds, don’t smoke or do drugs, and wear glasses. I have no tattoos. While I’m not the smartest, I have common sense. I’m quiet around people but can talk a lot when we’re alone. I’m the type of person who will be by your side, support you, be honest, and ensure you’re comfortable without forcing anything. I’ll listen and pay attention.

What I’m looking for: Someone who enjoys humor, supports each other through struggles, loves watching movies and anime, and playing PC or Switch games together. Someone who’s into coding, exploring kinks, enjoying nature, and daydreaming to music or wildlife. I want someone I can be stupid with so just be yourself.

There’s more about me on my profile. Send me an intro with your age (23-30) and location (NYC or nearby). We both have preferences, so let’s be open and see how it goes. I’m open to sending a picture right after you.