You can call me Ivory (not my real name). I’m a black woman who knows what she wants and is here to be clear about her preferences. I prefer to date outside my race, this is simply my personal choice. I’m only looking for cis males who are 5’8 or taller, fit, lean, or muscular, and aged between 23-27. Living in the northern suburb of St. Louis area. If you don’t fit this, please don’t message me.

I’m looking for a long term relationship with someone I can date to marry, so if that scares you, we won’t be a match. I want a Dom who is also my partner. Romance and kink go hand in hand for me. While I like it rough, I want the sweet side too, gentleness is just as important. I want a man who’s obsessive, possessive, but also loyal and caring.

Honesty is a big deal for me. I’ve been cheated on, and it left me with trauma, so I need complete honesty in my relationships. Be straightforward with me, whether it’s about something that could make me jealous or just your thoughts and feelings for the day. I want to know, and I will do the same in return.

I’m a masochist and I want a sadistic Dom who isn’t afraid to explore that side, but who also understands that I need a real, deep emotional connection. We’ll game together (expect me to ask you to play Roblox or Dead by Daylight) and talk about our day, our interests, and everything in between. I want a partner who cares about my thoughts and will let me care about his.

A few hard limits: I’m not into scat, silent treatments (that’s not a punishment, it’s just annoying), or golden showers.

About me: I’m introverted, chubby, and wear glasses. I love romance books (from fluff to dark romance and smut). I play small-time games and binge watch tv, Supernatural is my all-time favorite show. While I love Dean, I have a soft spot for Jack. I can be anxious and sometimes struggle with conversation, so please be patient with me if I take a little time to respond or make a mistake in how I talk. Also, if you’re flirting with me and I don’t pick up on it right away, don’t be surprised, I can be a bit clueless with that lol. Oh, and I’m 5’8 and in love with my bed and my kitten.

If you’ve made it this far and are interested, let’s chat! :) Tell me a bit about yourself in your message, and what you’d expect as a dom and a lover, and the things you’re into. You can even tell me your best dad joke. When I look at messages, I tend go for ones who introduced themselves. A simple “hey” and nothing else will make me quickly pass on you.