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Iām looking for a relationship (short or long term, though hoping for the latter). Whether you want to go from the friends to dating route, or fwb to dating route, or dating right away- as long as youāre upfront and honest about it, Iām flexible on however fast or slow you wanna go. With that said, if you just want to remain friends and such, tell me.
About me:
In terms of physical appearance, Iām a petite, cute (so Iāve been told) Latina. My body type is somewhat in between an āhourglassā and āpearā shape (working on that sleeper build), but if youāre curious to see, feel free to ask haha
Personality wise, I can be quiet and reserved at first, but slowly open up more once Iām comfortable with you. Iām a bit of a stoic, but it could be because Iām either deep in my thoughts, wondering about my purpose in life, or thinking about what to eat. With that said, my sense of humor is kinda broken, so from a simple dad joke to dark humor can make me die of laughter. I donāt think Iām good at being funny, but I think youāll enjoy watching me laugh at my own terrible jokes. However, I do enjoy a good convo with flirty banter included. I do have a soft spot for dogs (let alone pets), so if you have a furry baby and want to share a pic of them with me, please feel free to do so <3 (be warned: your furry baby might steal my heart before you will lol) I also have an INFJ/ Capricorn personality type (if thatās important to you)
Hobbies and interest- I enjoy reading, writing, poetry, cooking/ food, art, music, philosophy, languages, coffee, walking/ hiking, gym, horror (I love horror), gaming (card/ board games including), self improvement, stationary sets, trying new things, deep convos, watching films, and spending time with friends and family. [We can talk about nsfw stuff in private; just know Iām a bit of a nympho.]
Occupation- uni student entering my last year of school
Life goals:
Short term- graduate, find a job either in the states or outside of the country, reach body goals (Iām close), and find my own apartment.
Long term goals: be in a healthy and stable relationship, maybe get married (Iām neutral about this), have kids (1-3 at most, depending on how my future partner and I feel), build a savings plan for emergencies and future children, and just be happy and content with our lives.
What Iām looking for in a guy:
Age: between my age- 7 years older (at the time of writing posting this)
Height: I have a thing for taller men (5ā8/ ~173cm or taller)
Race: I do have a preference for East Asian men so thought I might as well mention it now
Appearance: Be cute lol (jk, kinda-ish idk) I donāt think I have a preference for style choice (I do like semi longish hair), but I have been catching myself being drawn to athletic men (let alone gym guys) ever since I started going to the gym. With that said, whether youāre just starting to go to the gym, been going for a while now, or even thinking about investing in starting your gym journey, the one thing Iāll prioritize over body type is you striving for self improvement. To me, thatās hot and sexy as hell. Not just because of your physique, but the mentality and discipline that comes with it. Though, Iād be lying if I said I didnāt want to go on gym dates and such <3
Personality: I donāt have too many experiences with extroverts, but you guys are also welcomed alongside introverts and ambiverts. I donāt care what your mbti/ astrology sign is. As long as we click, thatās all I need regardless of what some chart or stars have to say. All I ask is that youāre kind, respectful, honest, passionate, trustworthy, transparent, supportive, straightforward, and caring. Just be a decent human being haha Iām also a bit of a sapiosexual so if youāre smart/ knowledgeable and passionate about something - thatās a plus. Did I mention that Iām into passionate men? (:
Hobbies/ interests, Occupation, and Life Goals: tell me about them. I wanna learn more about you from you <3
And I think thatās about it! If you made it this far, why not send a message? <3
Try to put some effort in your messages if possible. I wanna get as much of your personality as possible through texts. Maybe share a pic as well? Iāll send a pic of myself in return and see where things go (;
If youāre not sure what to say, or if y ouāve read this far, here are some prompts you can answer for fun:
ā”ļøHow would you treat a waiter/ waitress who is currently working during rush hour?
ā”ļøHow do you deal with someone who is indecisive?
ā”ļøAnd for those who are philosophical at heart- what was one event in your past that was difficult for you and how did you overcome it? What did you learn and how did it affect your life?
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