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Going to put all my red flags at the top since I don't want to waste anyone's time. I'm married, poly, have kids and have little to no idea what I'm actually expecting to come up from this post. Not sure if a relationship or a more working aquaintanceship would be more useful, but figure got to start somewhere, so here it goes.
I've been knee deep in personality research for the past few years and have hit a bottleneck of sorts with how much I can understand without seeking help from others to get a grasp of the mindspaces people have. I've plummed the depth of my subconcious and have a fairly good understanding of how the mind works and what goes where. Problem is that I'm not exactly a complete representative of the human experience so there's a lot of blanks left to be filled in.
"Why not ask my wife?" you may be wondering, and the short asnwer is that I have. She's in the trenches with me, so to speak. Unfortunately (or fortunately, depending on the perspective), my wife is my mental opposite. What I have is what she doesn't and vice versa. Useful in getting as far as we have, but it becomes a problem that we can't triangulate since there's no common ground, so to speak.
So I'm tossing my proverbial hat into the aether in hopes that somehow this post randomly finds exactly who I'm looking for. A person who is interested in helping figure out some things by self-assessing their own mind to parse out how we work on a personality level. Again, not sure if a relationship would be best (since it can be incredibly awkward to divulge your deep/personal thoughts to a stranger (though, there are people on the internet that seem to not have that concern)) or if something more of a working partnership would be more suitable.
I'm not exactly everyone's cup of tea, unless having a jargon conversation with someone who would put an aside inside of an aside is all the rage nowadays. But, I am rather well mannered and all-around benevolent person, so there's that. If interested, by all means reach out. Chat, dm, a well-aimed and statistically improbable note on a paper airplane, what have you. As always, thanks for reading, and I hope you find what you've been looking for regardless.
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