I’m looking for a dominant man at least 5’9 (I’m 5’8) and 35 years old (I like older men) who live in SoCal, specifically Orange County. I’m not looking for hook ups, one night stands, or a friends with benefits situation. I’m looking for a real in person BDSM Dom/sub dynamic

Last year, I got out of a decade long mostly vanilla relationship and am trying to find myself in all the chaos. I’m here to meet new people, have some kinky fun, and try to move on with my life!

A bit about me: - Interests include Disney, literature, board games, theater, baking, dogs, museums, nature walks (not hiking, I’m not athletic), and staying home and being lazy - In order for me to enjoy sex, my mind must be seduced first which is why I enjoy getting to know people on here for a short time before meeting in person. Also, please be aware and okay with not immediately going behind closed doors together and fucking right when we meet. That’s not my style at all. At least buy me a drink first ;) - I’m plus size, kind of tall at 5’8, have brown hair and blue eyes, and I’ve been told a very innocent looking face - The physical “type” I’m most attracted to is over 35 years old, big, tall, and beardy. I’m sorry but just how not everyone is attracted to plus size bodies, I’m not attracted to slim or extremely fit bodies. So middle aged burly dudes to the front please! - I’m looking for someone SINGLE as I want to keep the possibility of a long term romantic relationship. I am NOT just looking for sex with no strings attached or a friend with benefits. I’m looking for a real relationship with a Dom/sub dynamic - Diagnosed with anxiety, OCD, and PTSD so I can be a bit shy at first but I also love joking and being silly - Vaccinated, liberal, 420 friendly and looking for the same!

Let’s get to know each other!