(light mention of kink, but i'm absolutely seeking something sfw)

about me:

hi, hello! i’m a 21-year-old, 5'8", plus sized woman who’s juggling a busy life of work, school, and personal growth. i'm neurodivergent with a creative mind, and i’m constantly finding ways to balance my professional goals with my love for self-improvement. beyond work, i’m a huge fan of deep conversations, and finding moments of joy in life’s little things.

my relationship style:

i practice hierarchical polyamory, and i’m currently seeking a primary partner (i have no other partners at the moment). i’m non-monogamous but still looking for something serious and meaningful, preferably with someone who understands or is interested in polyamory. i’m open to long-distance as long as we can meet sometime soon, but i'd love to connect with someone local for convenience and shared experiences.

what i’m looking for:

i’m looking for someone who values patience, open communication, and wants to build something genuine over time. it’s important to me that we take things slow, enjoy getting to know each other, and see where things lead. i love exploring kink, so a partner who's open-minded and shares or is curious about that side of me would be amazing. (i would prefer someone who understands that kink/sex is only one part of a relationship, and not the entire thing. i'm demisexual, and celibate right now, so sex isn't something i will be jumping into. i'm open to sexual conversation only in the context of getting to know the other person, and only after we've explored non-sex parts of what a relationship would look like [please include a pineapple in your initial message so i know you read this]). someone who’s supportive, compassionate, and not afraid of life’s challenges would be a great match. i also understand that physical attraction is important, so i'm down to exchange selfies.

what i bring to the table:

the table. lmao, jk. i’m a caring, loyal person who’s deeply invested in my relationships. i know how to communicate openly and honestly, and i thrive when my partner feels comfortable sharing their true self with me. i’m someone who loves adventure but also appreciates quiet nights in, watching movies or reading a book. if you’re a fan of creativity, personal growth, or just exploring new experiences, i think we’ll get along well. please be between 21 and 29.

a few logistics:

i work nights, so my schedule can be a little unconventional, but i make time for people i care about. i’m also a student, and that keeps me busy, but i’ll always prioritize building meaningful relationships. if any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out and let’s start a conversation!