Hi!

I am 30 YO Born Female/genderfluid/Depends on the day person, Alt Nerd, wow that was a mouth full, I go by any Pronouns. I posted before on my Anon account but quickly got overwhelmed by all the messages and busy with life so if I don’t respond quickly I apologize! 

More things about me:

I was born and raised in New England, I currently live in ME, But have lived in Washington state(1 Year), NYC (5 years MY FAVORITE PLACE) and England(6 Months) I am a Metal Head(Sleep Token,BMTH,DGD ect. I am an “Elder Emo”. I have some piercings and tattoos and need MOAR. I tend to go from Goth GF/BF to kawaii pastel to Adam Sandler, I’m short , blue eyes, and curves, I am a parent to a 2 YO I have signed up for some dating apps but BAD VIBES MAN, So much anxiety. I am a HUGE gamer, Gaming is VERY important to me(Music taste is important too but this is the biggest one). I have a steam Library of over 700 games, am I going to stop buying them? No, Do I have a problem? Probably. I love coffee and sweets But my belly does not I am a picky eater. I am bad at spelling and grammar as you can tell I am Neurospicy, I also have POTS so sometimes it hard for me to do some activities I am DemiSexual, I am Basically a cat give me all the affection then don’t touch me. I would say My personality is very bubbly, I have no Volume control, it goes from quiet to loud very quickly, I am a Homebody and an Introvert. Coffee keeps me alive and banter is my love language. I work In  healthcare. I am a work in progress but I have come far.

What I am looking for:

Deep connections that turn friendship or maybe in the future something more. I have a hard time getting attached to people but once I do, I’m in it for the long haul  A gamer is important to me and someone who does not despise kids as I have one of my own. LDR is fine but it be nice if i met some peeps closer, Plus i dont plan on moving so if things happen to work out you'll be forced to move to me sorry haha! Honesty and Communication are VITAL. Bonus points if you are a gamer/Alt/Metal head. I am an open book, If I peak your interest tell me a little bit about yourself and let me know, Also please let me know which subreddit you are Dming from as I post to a few, I am open to MOST relationship types eg. Poly/Mono but I currently single as heck (been Separated for about 6 months now).