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Hello! I’m a cis heteroflexible ENM male looking for a romantic partner or expanding polycule.
My wife has turned her energy towards finishing her education now that our son is mostly grown. Her academic requirements are quite rigorous and require most of her energy. We’re experienced in polyamory and she is encouraging me to date on my own again. She’s cool and will want to hang out when she has time, especially if you have a dog.
About me:
-Educated, professional, nerdy
-Tall and slender, in decent shape
-80’s, 90’s, and 00’s pop culture references galore
-Elder emo style, diverse music taste
-Outgoing and easygoing
-Love dogs
About you:
-Size / shape not as important as style
-Age not as important as experience
-Able to keep a conversation going, doesn’t have to be profound or clever
-Children or child-free are ok
-Open-minded and not-so-serious
-Bonus points for tattoos and piercings
I’m hoping we can get to know each other and build a relationship involving some of these activities:
-Hiking
-Climbing
-Camping
-Hot springs
-Being at the lake
-Skiing / snowboarding
-Karaoke
-Dancing
-Reading
-Games and trivia
-Sci-Fi and Horror movies / shows
-Concerts / shows / events / festivals
-Sharing salient moments of our day
-Travel
Not looking for:
-One and done. I’m hoping to build romantic relationships and get to know people authentically.
-Lots of drama. I have a well of patience and compassion for mature people who can talk through conflict and voice their needs. I have low tolerance for games and manipulation.
-Purely-platonic intent. Physical and emotional intimacy are important to me and should grow at their own pace. Affection, sex, and kinks should be on the table. If the attraction doesn’t pan out, developing a friendship is ok.
-Online-only. Depending on the vibe we can connect over distance further out than just Reno / Tahoe and build up to meeting.
Pics are on my profile. If you’ve read through this and it sounds up your alley please send me a DM with your favorite song in the title, tell me about yourself, and include a picture of yourself! I’ll check my inbox at least twice daily.
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